IT’S HARD, I DIDN’T ENTER THE MOTHER’S ROOM FOR A LONG TIME! Natasa Ninković is honest about marriage and children, and this is why she likes to go to a PSYCHOLOGIST



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Actress Natasa Ninković points out that she is currently fulfilled and happy because her wishes and possibilities are harmonized, but that in moments when she loses her balance, her family is the one who helps her the most.

According to her, the 1940s gave Natasa Ninković maturity and awareness of who she is and what her strengths and weaknesses are.

– I am aware of all my flaws, but I am also aware of all my good sides. I guess it’s maturity and I handle it well. I still have parts where I’m insecure, like cooking, where the kids tell me to please prepare the food once and they say that’s it, and not every time I’m sorry, I forgot this, maybe I took the food out of the oven a little earlier, with a broad smile. Natasha featured on the “Balkan Street” show.

photo: Damir Dervišagić

– I am happy because my wishes and possibilities are harmonized. There were times when that wasn’t the case and I was constantly anxious about something, and I need more of this, I’m constantly missing something, but now I have some balance. And now it happens to me that sometimes I get lost, but Nenad is the one who always brings me back to reality. Your ratio works better than mine and then it literally reminds me of a few things and opens my eyes. Usually he tells me to turn around and look at some things, you have to look at everything, and then I compose myself and say yes, you are right.

The actress notes that reading her youth diaries, she realized how much more she has accomplished in life than she imagined.

– I wrote many diaries before and I almost found them and I am surprised by what I wrote. There were all my dreams and I realized that everything that young Natasha wanted, then I realized it and went further. When I saw that, I said to myself: when you are in a crisis or you think something is missing, you will remember it. In my youth I was often a rebel, I was a fighter and it was not easy for my parents. For me everything was anxious and tight, Belgrade was small for me, not Trebinje. Even today, I don’t differ too much, but I feel fulfilled and fulfilled – says Natasa, admitting that over the years she has learned not to be too vulnerable.

– All my life I was hypersensitive and did not know how to control it. My mom called me Calimero, in the sense that I cried whenever something hurt me. Even today, I am vulnerable, only in the last few years have I learned to deal with it and give myself a day or two to deal with it. It used to take longer, but now if someone lets me down, I have to clear it up, I can’t do it half. So I say to myself, is that so? Yes, then I move on.

photo: Marina Lopicic

I was mentally preparing for my children to leave

The actress does not hide that it was difficult for her when her children Luka and Matija decided to build the future and get an education outside of Serbia, but that she is gradually getting used to it now.

– I have been preparing for this for two years with a psychologist, now it is easier for me because Matija takes a year off from life in the United States, so she is back at home with us. When he left for the first time, I did not go into his room much because it was difficult for me – said the actress, adding that she solves many doubts with the help of a psychologist:

– I like to go to a psychologist, otherwise I am one of those mothers who as soon as I feel that something may not be right, I immediately raise the alarm. Whether we go together or individually, I immediately put everything in the bin and clean it up immediately. I’m also not always ready to clarify, so I wait a bit, I ask them if they agree or not, so if they don’t, I go on their behalf and ask them what move should I make. It may not always be the best solution, but I love it so much and I think it’s best to ask. I know how to create an environment for myself.

The actress points out that she doesn’t need company to spend quality time.

– I often create an atmosphere for myself, I don’t wait for others to do it. If there is no content around me, I pour myself a glass of wine and, depending on my mood, play music, either Greek or Klapa. My housemates are used to it, sometimes they come into the room and see me and say yes, now you’re in it, sometimes one of my children joins me and I have such a good time those two, three hours.

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