Testimony of a mother who lost her daughter to Morel Bolea: “The police officer did not receive my complaint and said not to tell anyone” | Freedom

• Three women revealed the nightmare they lived for more than ten years within the organizations led by Morel Bolea – Eurodemos (civic projects) and Kasta Morrely (fashion).
• They accuse Bolea of ​​sexually and mentally abusing them and dozens of other girls, including minors.
• Bolea’s favorite victims came from broken families, so he could more easily pass himself off as a father.
• He gave endless speeches in which he preached to his followers that his parents were envious of his success and held them captive in poverty. Your only chance is to separate from them.

Many parents saw their children caught in the trap constructed by Iasi’s guru. This is also the case of Elena *, who 20 years ago lost her face to Morel Bolea.

“I don’t even dare to look at his photos. It’s dry on the inside, cleaned, it doesn’t shine, it has changed enormously,” sighs Mrs. Elena, speaking of her daughter.

T *. He was 14 in 2000 when he joined the Eurodemos team. Initially, her mother was happy, it seemed to her that it was a healthy environment for a teenage girl.

The girl participates in fashion contests and organizes events for Eurodemos. Her mother says that at least three of her colleagues came to her house frequently.

“I raised them, they were like my children. His parents were abroad. They came to our house, did their projects and homework. I washed their clothes, I made them food. They were dear to me, as if they were mine. ”

Elena raised three girls alone

Elena says she had a difficult family situation. She raised three daughters alone, her husband was addicted to alcohol and was abandoning his family.

The woman remembers that Morel Bolea often told her that he too was part of the family and that he could be like a father to the girl.

I replied that “I take care of her as I have done until now, you have your son, I see him.”

The first suspicions: “They were sitting too much with their heads in their laps”

The first strange thing Elena noticed was that the girls were too close to their mentor. “They were sitting too much with their heads on their laps, they were inappropriate gestures and diseases for a child-adult relationship,” says the woman.

Her daughter went to a fashion show with a colleague in Italy. Mrs. Elena could not contact them and the colleague’s mother, who was not 18 years old, was scared.

So Elena went to Morel Bolea to ask him to account. From that moment on, the relationship between the two cooled off.

T. begins to listen more to the guru than to his mother

T’s birthday was approaching. He was 20 years old and his mother had prepared a special gift for him. After saving and a bank loan, he bought a second-hand car for which he paid 7,000 euros. In the 2000s, there was not much money.

T. came to see the car together with Morel Bolea and his colleagues from the foundation.

“It was his type of car, sportier, more for boys,” Elena recalls.

“He was very happy when he saw his daughter. But when he started commenting, that she was scratched, that she didn’t know what, suddenly she also said that she didn’t want the car, that she needed the money. She was sick, she was so passive and sharp. I told him it was his car and that I would not sell it to give Morel the money. “

“I thought I was going crazy,” continued Ms. Elena. “I was sick and I fell on the asphalt. A dog came to lick me and feel sorry for him, and my daughter did not look at me and treated me as if I did not exist.

My daughter was not like that, we both loved each other very much, we were inseparable. I don’t know how he could make it in such a short period of time.

Elena:

One of the girls who left the organization overheard Morel Bolea talking to T. about her mother. “Said his mother [doamna Elena] she would have come to him and was jealous of the girl, that the girl was with him. He had a very convincing style of saying these things, then he had T. confirm that that’s really the reality, and she obeyed, ”explains the source.

Later, Elena found out that Morel Bolea wanted to buy an expensive car and therefore needed money.

The following month, the two spoke only on the phone and the discussions were conflictual. Elena felt that her daughter was using Morel Bolea’s speech and words.

Expulsion of the mother

The woman went to the headquarters of the organizations to see her daughter. He went in, but Morel Bolea told him that T. was gone and tried to kick her out. But Elena sat on a sofa and waited.

“When T. arrived, the girls said to him: ‘Look, I’m waiting for you.’ He came up to me and said, “What are you looking for, what do you want?” “I came, however, to see you, maybe we should reconcile, go home, as if you were giving up this fight too much.” And then he said, “You know what? I don’t care, it’s my family.”

The woman was in shock and couldn’t move. Remember that T. pretended to clean, took the mop and ran it over, as if his mother had not been there.

“He told me to come out, because we had nothing to say. I said, ‘I’m waiting for you though.’ I sat outside for about 20 minutes, tears were running down my face and I didn’t have a napkin. He came out and fought me again: “I could never trust you, I don’t trust you, you didn’t do anything for me, you were always sick, you’re hunchbacked, don’t you look the way you look ?!” I couldn’t even open my mouth. I was all crying. “

The police do not want to receive the complaint from his mother: “He said not to tell anyone”

The woman went home traumatized. He tried to call her in the following months, but the girl did not answer.

After many years, Ms. Elena stopped contacting her. “The more it hurts, the more we feel like it doesn’t make sense.”

However, he wants to keep her on top of important family events, so he sends her emails and postcards writing that she is always welcome at home.

He tried to file a complaint with the police. But “the policeman did not let me write the statement and told me not to tell anyone,” says the woman.

“We were beaten, they didn’t cut our umbilical cord. I don’t know how they managed to kidnap her and wash her head. I have no chance of winning. But I want the children’s parents to know what is happening. Know that since they were little they will be in debt.”

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*For their safety and integrity, the names and initials of these individuals have been changed.

This material was produced with the support of Project Rise.

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