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SEXOLOGIST: Influential Iselin Guttormsen is a trained sexologist and believes it’s important to be open about women’s genitalia. Photographer: Kevin Norby
Influential sexologist Iselin Guttormsen says openness helps to see how vulnerable women are when it comes to their own abdomen. – Women who operate on the abdomen are not the problem here, he says.
In the book “Things I Have Learned”, Sophie Elise Isachsen opens up about shame related to sexuality, and shame for her own abdomen, for “pussy” as she calls it.
He also reveals that he secretly had his abdomen operated, as a result of embarrassment.
– Shame related to the abdomen itself is a very harsh reality, even to this day, says sexologist and influencer Iselin Guttormsen to VG.
Guttormsen says he talks to young and old women who feel this shame on a daily basis.
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Vagina-related shame, female pleasure, and orgasms have always existed, and porn and popular culture tell us daily what a woman and a vagina “should” look like, according to Guttormsen.
– For someone to say openly that he himself is a victim of the ideal of beauty associated with a woman’s abdomen can teach us how sad this really is and that this is certainly not the solution, he says.
Point out that each abdomen is different, in both boys and girls.
– If someone else points out something different about your abdomen, what is wrong is the person’s vision of what is normal, not your vagina, he says.
SHAME: Iselin Guttormsen says that shame related to the vagina, female pleasure, and orgasms has always existed, and that porn and popular culture tell us daily how a woman and a vagina “should.” Photo: Annemor Larsen / VG
In connection with the book launch, Isachsen appeared in an interview with VG earlier this week.
When asked if he was afraid to add other complexes around his own abdomen, when they may not have “reason” for it, Isachsen replied:
– I cannot understand that those who are not “right” can start looking for a reason. For me, those reasons have been incredibly obvious. So I think that’s the risk that I have to take, that maybe it gives others a complex, but what would have been the alternative then? Don’t you ever talk about it when there may be thousands who feel the same? He said.
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Guttormsen believes that openness helps to see how vulnerable women are when it comes to their own abdomen and how easily one can be influenced.
– Women who operate the abdomen are not the problem here, but the ideal of society of what a “correct” abdomen should look like.
Do you think Sophie Elise creates frankness or more shame related to women’s genitalia?
– It all depends on what the recipient of the message wants to perceive or perceive. Sophie Elise is an easy target for many to hate. I’m pretty sure many feel it contributes to further embarrassment, while others feel the opposite, she says.
Guttormsen says that it’s not primarily the influencers who speak openly, who characterize the women he speaks to.
– In most cases, they are comments from men and boys.
What do you think about having surgery to get rid of embarrassment and complexes?
– I do not want to say what women can and cannot do, or what is right and what is wrong. Women should be allowed to do whatever they want to feel good.
Surgery is never a solution if you feel embarrassed or have a bad self-image, he says.
– But it is very easy to say if you yourself do not feel complexes or shame, especially when we talk about the abdomen.
Inequality: It indicates that all abdomens are different, both in boys and girls. – If someone else points out something different about your abdomen, what is wrong is the person’s vision of what is normal, not your vagina, he says. Photo: Annemor Larsen / VG
– I think we should take into account the structures, values and opinions of society when it comes to body pressure. Why don’t girls feel good enough the way they are? He asks.
Rather than point the moral finger, he believes that we should be more open and see what we really learn from this.
Therefore, he believes that it is important to speak out loud about shame and abdomen.
– The vulva and vagina are fantastic! They protect against bacteria, give life, pleasure and joy! Imagine that women have an organ that is only created for pleasure: the clitoris. The clitoris has an equally delicious and fantastic independent appearance on the vulva or vagina, he says, adding:
– Ladies and girls must be masters of our pussy! She is amazing and deserves to be treated with love and respect.
Do you remember this? Iselin Guttormsen speaks directly from the liver on the “G-Punktet” podcast.
