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Once again, friends arrived with a boy who kicked dogs. Strong to the side with the foot. I asked to discipline the boy. The parents said “he’s just playing.” Then I let my dog out of the cage, which is not to the liking of children (in the case of guests with children, I close it because it barks a lot at children). When the dog chased a child around the yard, I also told my parents “he’s just playing.” Clearly, the child was crying, the parents were angry, I was left guilty.
None of us had to fly an airplane yelling at a child. I understand that when a baby screams, he is small, you will not tell him to sigh, I understand and sympathize with the parents of such a child. But when a freshman screams hysterically and kicks your seat on the plane with his feet, you are no longer so tolerant.
An acquaintance related a situation in which a three-year-old girlfriend, still breastfed, was staying with strangers and asked for a “parrot.” Mom offered it to him, but he pulled his friends over their tops and said “I want this.” Mom laughed, how playful her son was. The friends were uncomfortable.
Another friend said that she stopped inviting a couple with the children because they always broke something, executed it, painted it on the walls, and the parents didn’t feel bad about it. The end was when the children of friends ruined her birthday because she demanded attention all night, and when the candles were lit on the cake and “Happy Birthday” was sung so much that the songs were not heard, it was that the candles did not blow . Parents, of course, allowed them to inflate.
Yes, the title of the article sounds. And this time I don’t mean that parents don’t have to bring their kids as guests or fly a free plane. All with that OKYour children are an important part of your life, so you want them to be involved everywhere.
It is true that I once heard the legendary saying of a mother: “And how will my son understand what it is? ballsif I don’t take it with you? Mom, believe me, you will grow up and understand who they are. balls, and he does not need, at the age of seven, apparently Uncle Kęsto for the fifth time with curses that say the same thickness as when he was drunk. mentai caught. And I still think that adults at parties with alcohol – there is no place for children.
Still very “faini” are the parents who declare: “We will not go to your wedding, if we cannot reunite Armandėlis, he really likes the holidays”.
And I just don’t have to say “now when you have your kids, you understand.” Being circumcised is unpleasant, even if it makes a three-year-old look like a doll. It is annoying when parents have not learned their children to respect an animal weaker than themselves, it is annoying when they allow them to cling to strangers. I understand enough to understand that young people are more important than a little miracle at a wedding. And I really don’t need my children to understand that in the situation that I have listed, it is not the child who is to blame, but the parents who ignore the negative behavior of their “joie de vivre”.
The children of horrors are a reflection of their parents. Yes, there are probably exceptions, but most of the time we view your child in the same way that you were brought up. And no, I don’t hate children. I find it very unpleasant to see a child whose negative behavior does not fully respond to his parents. I’ll probably only understand when necessary, but now, I’m sorry, but I don’t understand.
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