Andrius Šedžius and his younger lover Erdvilė Pilvinytė are expecting a baby

Delphi He knew about the couple’s offspring since the spring and directed comments to both future parents, but A. Šedžius and his heart friend were in no hurry to enjoy it and waited for the right moment to be sure of this delicate subject.

Conversations about E. Pilvinytė’s possible pregnancy began to spread after she suddenly became interested in children’s issues on social media, joined special groups, communities of pregnant women, etc.

A. Šedžius, who was interviewed about a possible future child a little earlier, told the media that he would long for that gift.

“I would like that, but a person can love a lot, the essence is that everything is controlled by God, who decides for whom that happiness can smile,” he said enigmatically.

The relationship between A. Šedžius and the much younger E. Pilvinytė was made public last year, when the former Seimas member was still divorced from his then-wife Monika Kvietkutė.

Living together for a while

Andrius Šedžius was unwilling to talk about his relationship with Erdville Pilvinyte for a long time, but during the quarantine, in contact with Delphi, the businessman started and recounted how his life had changed when a twice younger girl entered Ireland a few years ago. . During the interview, the interlocutor did not hide the fact that he and Erdvilė live together, and also spoke about how their relationship was affected by life and if we would have a wedding.

Last year, the media showed news about how another woman, E. Pilvinyt 21, 21, appeared in Andrius’ life before the end of the divorce process with his former lover Monika Kvietkutė. Delphi She told the portal very openly what was happening between her and the businessman. She admitted to being the new mistress of a famous man of 44 years, she told him about the acquaintance of the two in Dublin, the serious relationships, coexistence and confessions of love of A. Šedžius.

Today, the couple’s life is a little calmer: both share a common life and live together in Šiauliai. Although Andrius no longer hides this relationship from the public, when asked how they agreed during the quarantine and if there was any anger about it, A. Šedžius laughed.

“Well like I said here,” he said with a smile and continued. – Seriously, I’m a peaceful person and I’m not mad at anyone. In general, I try not to have any conflict. “

“It just came to our attention then. There is a Russian saying that means we need to live, but we don’t live with whom, we live with whom we live,” added the interlocutor.

Explaining that such a saying can captivate Erdvilė, because she seems to be very much in love with him, Andrius calmed down.

“She is in love. But love happens, it happens. Life is full of worries. It is very easy to love and be good when there are no responsibilities or other difficulties, and when they arise, things often change,” says the man.

When asked why A. Šedžius talks about these relationships in a rather limited and infrequent way, the former Seimas member did not deny that this was a deliberate move on his part.

“I already have experience in my life, so I do not attack that relationship backwards. It is not urgent to publicize or enjoy them,” explains the interlocutor.

The couple’s relationship was discussed in public last year, but Andrius revealed that their relationship had started much earlier.

“I brought it from Ireland in the summer of 2017 or 2018. I’m afraid to lie exactly, but I’ve been bugging her ever since,” she laughed.

When asked how this misery manifests itself and if a large age difference may be to blame, the interviewee guessed the riddle.

“I don’t know if you will understand me … Do you know what their biggest reproach is for me? What do women blame men for?” Asked A. Šedžius.

Hearing that he may be referring to women’s complaints that they are receiving “very little attention,” the former politician explained, “Too little attention, too. It never seems to be enough for all women. Although they both show it and give flowers. But still, the main complaint is not that. I usually hear that I work too much. It says, “Other boys like boys, and you work and work.” Virginia“I am bad,” said A. Šedžius.

After a conversation about the general state of their relationship, the interviewee made it clear that there were storms under the roof of their homes.

“Everything happens. They both move and move. It already comes out. It is not the euro to please everyone,” he said.

When asked about the common future of the two of them, perhaps a planned wedding or an increase in family, A. Šedžius is still in no rush to take these steps.

“You see, a child is not the answer if you want to strengthen a relationship. Sure, maybe a baby brings a greater sense of security to a woman, but in a general sense, even a child wouldn’t be able to stop a man if the divorce issue arose. The child certainly would not act as a protector. Having a baby is a great joy. The greatest happiness is leaving something behind in life. No one will leave a better footprint after you than your own children.

And now, going to Vilnius with my son Gabriel, I noticed how things are changing. On Šiauliai’s trip to Vilnius, I observe how nature has changed, how everything hurts, how everything becomes beautiful again. There will be thousands more such springs, but only a certain number of them are available to us. The same is the case with children: time passes and the child will never be the same. He will no longer be a baby, so you must enjoy every minute and moment.

I am often asked if didn’t get stuck I travel to Vilnius so often, on Tuesdays, Thursdays and any other weekend. I always answer that definitely not, because I am happy to see my son, he is always different, changed. It will no longer be like this and there will be no more moments of joy in my life with him. Unless with another child, if I ever have such joy. If only God gave such joy, I certainly will not hide it and I will be very happy. If that child will be given to me by Erdvil given or another woman. The point is that the child is healthy and happy, “says the man.

“And when is a child happy? When your parents agree. Natural. My heart hurts when Monica brings Gabriel, and he still doesn’t want to get divorced, and it hurts so much when he’s with my mother and he still doesn’t love me. It hurts much. But the child suffers more. He wishes he had a woman with whom he had children, and it would be a great joy to have her. But things have turned out differently in life and I will not change anything here. But there is no need to change or scratch. I can only blame myself because I don’t give him any more time and because I broke up with his mother. In this situation, I don’t give myself any advantage, I can only condemn myself to a certain extent for what happened, feel guilty about the child. But what you do now, life continues, “he adds.

Erdvilė also helps Andrius take care of his son or have fun with him. According to the interlocutor, the relationship between the child and his loved one is excellent.

“I am very happy that she perfectly agrees with Gabriel. They play so much fun that I even joke (I just don’t know if the readers will understand me correctly and don’t condemn me for that) … I joke that when they are closer, they agree more easily, “Andrius chuckled.” For example, they’re laying in bed and I hear my son scream, ‘Stop, Erdville!’ I’m in a hurry to see what’s going on, it turns out they’re playing Roblocks, and Erdville ran virtually to some room. “In this situation, even Dad can’t catch up. They are true friends.”

When asked if she and her friend A. Šedžius were talking about the possible establishment of a relationship: a wedding, the interlocutor betrayed that, for the beloved woman, he could decide this step again in the future.

“For me, a wedding is definitely not essential, but will I want to see my wife unhappy? When a man wants to have a happy woman by his side, he takes those steps because of him. Maybe I’m one of those men who can’t see sad eyes every day, so someday I’ll have to decide again. But I speak on this topic in general if the relationship converges. Still, every girl dreams of wearing that white dress, especially one she has never worn before. Those who already used it are like women after the army, everything is clear with them, but for those who not served, It’s very important. Will you deprive a person of a dream? We will have to climb this rake again, “says Andrius.

Hinting that the current loved one is not the much younger first couple in their life, A. Šedžius laughed: “It is not they who attract me, but me. My sister constantly jokes and says I’m like a magnet that just attracts young women. “

At the end of the conversation, the interlocutor was glad that the quarantine did not disturb his plans in any way.

“I have planned the job for 50 years. Even if I had to adhere to strict quarantine, I would be assigned a place on the farm, and the job there never ends. The worst case scenario would be if I was locked within four walls, then I would definitely I’d go crazy. Well, then you should bring a lot of books, and everything would be fine, “he laughed.