A Vilnius resident recounted his experience in newly built apartment buildings: it is becoming impossible to live

Lynch on social media

Real estate experts unequivocally claim that most young families choose new construction homes. This means that young people, families with children live in the newly built apartment blocks. Vilnius Kęstutis “Delfi Būstas” says that his knowledge of new apartment building communities is not very pleasant. The interviewee points out that a large proportion of the population in these homes consists of the so-called supermoms and superpapas, who overreact to some situations.

“If in some districts there is a problem that there are noisy people, then very often mothers and fathers move into new homes, which is too fundamental and you feel like you live with the commanders. He begins to feel that he is losing his personal life, because every sound in his apartment is accompanied by aftershocks, public lynching courts on social networks, ”says the Vilnius resident.

The interlocutor goes on to say that he and his friends have had to deal with angry neighbors who complain to each other about insignificant details in a group of residents of a house or several houses created on social networks.

“You come to a friend’s dinner and he turns off the background of silent music, the television at 9 o’clock at night and begins to shake nervously with each laugh and asks us not to speak too loudly at home.” Or you sit at home with an open window in the summer and are afraid to speak out loud, starting at 9 p.m., you start whispering because there are neighbors who are already yelling and posting on Facebook how long the parties can last here. People create such collective discomfort, “says Kęstutis.

According to the Vilnius resident, it becomes uncomfortable to live in such a house because you feel guilty about your little one’s crying or playing with the dog.

“I have lived in different areas and it is more fun for me to live where there are different residents and when your neighbors are not saints and they know it. Living with the saints is a much greater burden than living with sinners. Maybe one of my neighbors is dirty and constantly polluting something, but you know them, you are with them as you are. Don’t be uncomfortable having a child or a dog. We are all neighbors and we interfere with each other a little, “says my interlocutor.

All communities have troublesome neighbors.

In fact, today not only the expression of opinions about events in Lithuania, but also relevant issues for apartment communities have been transferred to social networks. According to Antanas Kišūnas, Head of the Housing Department at Ober-Haus, social media today helps residents save time by not having to host live meetings. Furthermore, according to A. Kišūnas, when talking about the conflicts of the neighbors, it can be noted that generally the initiator of the conflicts is the same neighbor.

“If there is such a troublesome person in the community, then generally nothing is right for him. Of course, there are also situations where people sell their houses to a neighbor, but this is more the exception. Of course, we are all beings human, but communities solve these problems, and if there is already a conflicting personality, then something will go wrong for him, “emphasizes the interlocutor.

According to A. Kišūnas, it is notable that not only residents of newly built apartment blocks are actively using social media. Residents of older areas are also used to virtual decision making.

“In the central part of the city, even though the population is larger, the population is still getting younger, and those innovations are coming bit by bit. People with less money investing in real estate buy older apartments. And it is very rare that they even transfer the right to decide when it comes to property to the tenants. I would venture to say that there is already a revival of population rejuvenation in the central parts of the city. And anyway, those older people who they are unsatisfied with everything they remain, they give their charm to each house, they always see everything, they do not need a camera, “emphasizes the interlocutor.