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They parted ways and rediscovered each other again. Everything became clear, sedentary, but excited, at will. With this sentiment, Milisandra and Algirdas, observing fifty guests, renewed the vows of the ten-year ecclesiastical marriage at Christ the King Church in Klaipėda.
“We would not have celebrated this decade in such a tumultuous way if there had not been misunderstandings in our family a couple of years ago. It inspired us. You want everything to be reborn in every way. By swearing before God, we think more strongly …” Algirdas said.
Radzevičius’s best friends, Diana and Audrius, became witnesses to the marriage. The couple spend most of their time with them, so they knew all the secrets of a famous family like no other.
The couple exchanged their classic wedding rings.
“We don’t even imagine what else others could decorate our hands. They have been shining on our fingers since the beginning of our lives, ”said Milisandra.
The idea to renew the vows came to A. Radzevičius in the spring. In the summer, Black moved to Algirdas’ native Klaipeda, and then the singer shyly thought of a surprise for his wife: secretly organizing a party and inviting Milisandra to her.
But then I reconsidered. You know how it is with women: if she had surprised me at the altar, she would have had questions about where to dress and shoes. The bride would have run away, “he was not in a good mood.
The women’s issues were solved by the Millillers during the day. She walked down the aisle dressed in an elegant light gown, which at first glance fell into the eyes of Klaipeda’s “Ivory” wedding fashion salon.
“It just came to our knowledge then. I had a clear vision of how I would like to look. I went to the salon and when her owner saw me, he immediately showed me the dress. I didn’t even look at the others, she fit me and I felt like myself “said M. Radzevičienė happily.
At first, Algirdas and Milisandra thought of vacations just for two. But one couple with countless friends decided: when, if not now, celebrate with friends?
“We have many passengers nearby. We know that they rejoice in our joys and cry when we cry too. Life is one, so we must be happy to be all together,” said Algirdas.
A few days before the ceremony, A. Radzevičius once again knelt against the woman of his life and asked her to marry him. The romantic moment took place in front of the most famous ship in the port city “Meridian”.
“Dinner prepared in secret, I went home and took myself to the terrace. He stumbled and spoke very beautiful words … ”Milisandra said excitedly even before the wedding.
For some time, both of them carefully planned the celebration in Klaipeda themselves; In the invitations, they invited their friends to a party on the water. But the day before the celebration, when everything seemed to have stalled and it only remained to enjoy the moment, everything turned upside down. The storm on the seashore unleashed a stressful joke: the ship’s captain announced the day before the wedding that sailing was risky, so we had to rethink everything and find a new place to celebrate.
“I don’t know if it was someone else’s case. Everything had to happen in a big boat: good weather, program, decoration … But the only day of this hot summer was the worst: the earth mixed with the sky”, Milisandra shared her impressions after the celebration.
His witnesses and friends, who run the Shore Beach Lounge in Second Melnrage, came to the rescue. The domes were immediately built, decorated and all the details rethought. As if it were small, on the wedding day, the young people were worried about another message: due to a strong storm, the sea covered the bar, and the domes were swept by the wind.
“It just came to our knowledge then. We still did not know where to continue the celebration a few hours before the ceremony. But we have very good friends, witnesses who took care of everything. Remigijus Žiogas and his friends rushed to organize new places. I cried and did not. he could believe how things were going, “it was as if the woman were telling him the movie.
Finally, the guests gathered in the spacious GA photo studio, where it was clear: everything is in the past and problems only bring everyone even closer. Now Milisandra is convinced that without these events such a tragic party would not have taken place. The chef duo “Mosso” from Druskininkai, who prepared exclusive dishes for the guests, took care of the decoration “Moss.Box” and sweetened everything with a cake from the Sugar Studio.
“Such extreme things make bombshell every holiday. Everyone was animated, embracing euphoria. There were tears and sleepless nights: they wanted everyone to be ideal. But all the details were taken care of. I can safely say that our friends held a wedding for us. , not us for them. I think everyone will remember this holiday for a long time, “he smiled.
Radzevičius’s friends are familiar faces. The performer Ruslan Kirilkin sang in the church and R. Žiogas, who was invited to the celebration, offered to become the leader himself, so the couple were happy.
“He said, ‘I can’t be a guest.’ We let the events unfold on our own. Everything happened with freedom, in a more spontaneous way, without tensions or plans ”, assured Algirdas.
The couple chose an unusual day, Wednesday, for a very simple reason. Summer is the same work year for all musicians, so it is very difficult to get together on a weekend day.
Ten years, is it a lot or a little? M.Radzevičienė considered it to be just a number, but during that time he had already managed to experiment, survive and learn everything.
“It just came to our knowledge then. There is no smoke-free home, but mostly there are beautiful and bright things. For me, this vacation is very important to me, my close environment, my family. In my mind, I felt that After all the storms, ten years were important in our family, ”said Milisandra.
Radzevičiai remembered his first marriage. Initially, in 2008, while waiting for her son Rokas (13), she married Black in the Vilnius Marriage Palace, and a few years later in the church.
“Everything was different then – a lot of confusion in the mind, uncertainty. And now we live together for enough years and we know what is most important to whom. We are taking a calm step, which we are strengthening, so there is less emotion ”, assured Algirdas.
When in 2019 the news about Radzevičius’s divorce disappointed through the media, the wall of silence was opened in black. And not unnecessarily. Today, the couple mentions that they did not believe in such a decision, so they could not tell themselves or others the exact reason for the divorce. And although they both signed the divorce papers, they continued to live in the same house near Vilnius, so the dark smoke cleared.
“I knew this man was for me for life. There has always been infinite love, respect, so I couldn’t imagine how you could live without my Angel. It’s so easy to sign and stand out, and the real art is supporting a family. A big bubble came out of the divorce.
Of course it happened. But when we signed the documents at our home, we didn’t believe what we were doing. We did not understand what was happening because we always knew that we would not be different when we met. I knew after the divorce it would be a matter of days before we reconciled, ”Milisandra shared about her past experiences.
Today, they look at each other with new and radiant eyes and speak boldly to fall in love again. The impact only further strengthened their relationship.
“After all the storms, we both feel like we’ve reached a quiet haven of plenitude. I think that if people did not have a crisis, then it is not a strong family. They must pass certain stages of life: after all, we are from different families, we have to look for compromises, we need to help each other. And the divorce? Definitely not for us yet. We talk a lot with Algis: we are both open, strong, sincere, trustworthy and we listen. Then love became different, “Milisandra smiled.
“Now love is not so windy. She is mature, more responsible. So that look is very important: seeing with the same eyes and the same things. Family is a common path with all obstacles. True love when you realize that it is your person, not just passion. Of course, it is necessary and it should be. But the further away, the more important it is to feel safe with that person, to trust him … ”- Algirdas said sensitively on the day of the vow renewal.
Radzevičiai will not share wedding recipes with others. They are convinced that family models are different and that everyone who takes important steps in life must feel them with all their heart and mind.
“There is no recipe. I think that the beginning has to be very strong so that bad things do not happen later. Each family has to find where all the problems started. The party’s advice is the worst. But you should think if they can find that way together. And for those who are starting to create a life, it is worth seeing if it is not just passion that keeps them side by side, “said Algirdas.
