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Post posted on Facebook, Rūta agreed to share with Delphi readers.
“Today my daughter asked me why people are different when up to now they have declared love and even divorced, claiming to love, respect and always be grateful to each other. I did not hold back, I said that I think probably another love is waiting in another house. The devil pulled that tongue, because only for a person entering adult life, the “shiny papers that we wrap our candy in” are still hard to read!
Blemba, I realized that it is not easy for a child to answer even the essential question: is there love? And why does he show it like this in the movies? Mom says, you’re with dad over 20 years old. together, as you don’t know, but we couldn’t be! So would you advise my daughter the same? After all, it’s not that I have nothing to say.
My grandmother used to say: love (passion) is a disease that only takes time to recover from! I cannot object! Like the other one: “it will only get worse after the wedding”! She was a great country woman and “those salivations” weren’t for her!
When I bragged that it will “only get worse,” he explained: At first we want to look better, but over time we become who we are! All love stories start out the same, and what happens when the champagne bubbles burst?
Even being himself north Wife of years, I mean, even a fool of his own free will (unless he’s a masochist) won’t tolerate decades of snoring, cheese crumbs on the carpet, and a green mask with training on weekends. (Let’s put addictions and syndromes aside now, not this site essence). Especially when it is not the palm trees and the sea around, but Marytė or Jurgiai, who do not suffocate “you love me and how you feel”, they smell a good perfume, not a tired child or worse – orally, buitiaku! Unless they are friends, maybe the best! I even think that’s the only condition for a long-term relationship.
Usually best friends are no different, lovers are different! Those who say that friendship is the end of love lie! And only now do I understand what a rural woman meant: “choose a man for marriage, not a man”!
Is marriage about joy? No. Marriage soon over sadness, just get it right! Do you run home or leave home in case of trouble? When it’s fun, you’ll be with everyone when you’re sad: drives, those you care about.
Bet anyway, marriage cannot be a prison, even in the Maldives with champagne: we have the right to be happy, as we understand it! Finally, a relationship like a dress. She can be very beautiful, fashionable, one that others will envy, but give it away if she restricts movements, sews the seams, presses or otherwise, you feel insecure – not for you that way, daughter! Better already in pajamas!
And don’t make a serious decision when you’re overwhelmed by passion or anger; You may have to run away or ask for forgiveness later!
PS If you are ever a public person and you get divorced, for God’s sake, don’t write hasty public letters with everyone: “I respect you, I have lost, I will always be grateful” until you are both in a “balanced position” and ready for kids. The public is not a psychologist’s office, rather, a pigsty: children did not deserve such publicity! And if you push hard, a short one will suffice: I differ, I respect our feelings, no comment yet!
Would all of this help? I do not know. As if I’m not sure I can do it all myself “- R. Mikelkevičiūtė shared his thoughts.
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