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It has been confirmed that a son of a mother in her 20s in Jeju, who posted a post about adopting a child born three days ago in a used goods transaction request, entered a daycare in Jeju on the 19th.
According to related agencies, the mother and child were scheduled to remain in the postpartum care center until the 24th, but were discharged on the fourth day of admission.
The mother changed her schedule to stay at the single mother center after she was discharged from the cooking center and offered to stay with her son at home until the child was adopted.
The mother appears to have been confused after giving birth on the 13th, changing her mind several times while raising her son for fear of sudden circumstances.
In short, the mother did not know that she was pregnant until the actual date of birth. She had colic for two days before delivery. She visited the obstetrician and gynecologist on the recommendation of an acquaintance to learn that she was pregnant only on the day of birth.
At the hospital, knowing that the mother was a single mother, they contacted a center for single mothers in Tokyo, but the place where the mother sought advice was the adoption center.
Actually, the mother also completed her daughter’s birth report on the 16th, when she posted an adoption article on a second-hand trading app to speed up the adoption process.
However, on the 17th, the next day, they appeared to overturn the decision to stay with the child in a facility for single mothers.
An official at the facility said: “I made a room before the mother and child entered, and informed the mothers who will be living together of the situation, but today the child is going to a nursery.” “There is a period until adoption, so I don’t know what choice the mother will ultimately make,” he said carefully.
The controversy over the adoption position has raised concerns and concerns about the conditions of childbirth and raising the children of single mothers.
Jeju Governor Won Hee-ryong also posted on his Facebook page on the 18th: “I was very surprised to see an article by a single mother who published an article about adopting children in the online market.” “On the one hand, it was very painful. We will check again the state of support and protection for single mothers ”.
The support system for single-parent families is gradually being supplemented, but it is not easy to receive close support in time when you find out you are pregnant or when you are giving birth alone.
In a survey of single parents in Jeju published last year by the Jeju Women and Family Research Institute, various opinions were expressed that “there was no detailed guide to the resident center.”
Facilities for single mothers across the country, such as Jeju, have opened and operated the ‘Emergency Call During Crisis Pregnancy’ (142237), but the publicity is insufficient.
According to the city of Jeju, in the case of single-parent households, the application or not is determined solely by the amount of monthly income recognized by the household without restrictions on the economic conditions of the dependents, such as the parents.
If the recognized monthly income as of 2020 is less than 1,795,000 won for two people, it is included in support for single-parent families. If the monthly income is less than 1.55 million won for two people, an additional 200,000 won will be provided per month until the month before the child’s 18th birthday.
In the case of single mothers, if they ask for help at a center for single mothers in the province, they can live in the center until the child reaches a certain age. However, after delivery, counseling on psychological panic, future planning and measures to support self-reliance to overcome financial difficulties are more detailed. There are many voices that must be continually designed.
The perception around them also hurts them.
An official at a facility for single mothers in Tokyo said: “It is our view that we are no more prepared than society. Do ”, he emphasized.
Jeju = Reporter Moon Jeong-im [email protected]
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