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2030 generations who shout ‘Lee Saengmang’ as a mouth and self-help habit that this life has fallen. However, when a person’s life turns into one day, 30 years is only 8:30 am. You can’t ruin a day before even lunch. Cookie News 2030 reporters put together the cheat keys to uncover the moment when this life seems to be ruined.
[쿠키뉴스] Inside reporter Jung Yu-jin = I started hearing the marriage news around me, and then I had an acquaintance’s wedding invitation in my hand. It was also a time to get excited about the wedding invitation that I received for the first time. When I think about it, the only wedding ceremony is the memories of my parents holding hands. How to dress, how long to go, etc., so as not to be a beginner at the wedding, turn your head.The hardest thing is giving away money. There are no national standards and no one deserves to ask. The irresponsible story of “you give everything you want to give” has doubled my head. I have outlined what standard to set the amount of congratulations for you, who is obsessed with the illusion of ‘If someone who opened my envelope gave me a wedding invitation for no reason’.
(※ Caution ※ This article was written for ‘society beginners’, not for the ‘professional social life’ of n-year employees).
◇ “If you are not sure, 50,000 won”
The recent trend is to set the standard point for wedding greetings at 50,000 won. It varies depending on the wedding hall, but considering the food cost of around 40 to 50,000 won, it is best to prepare at least 50,000 won or more. In a Gallup Korea poll released in April last year, about 49% of people in their twenties answered that they put between 50,000 and 90,000 won in a gift bag.
If you plan to continue the relationship after the wedding, you should think about at least 50,000 won. Remember, it is not a very close or very distant relationship, but you do not know what kind of relationship it will become. For example, if a former college student, Jieun, who sees two or three times a year, and Assistant Principal Kim, who speaks occasionally, 50,000 won is not a bad choice. Former workers who often keep in touch or contacts have long been severed, but 50,000 won in congratulations is worth considering even to acquaintances who schedule dinners and give out royal wedding invitations.
◇ “If you are close, 100,000 won” will be certified as a congratulatory gift.
For friends you meet regularly and acquaintances who feel close, putting 100,000 won as congratulatory money is a good option. Of course, putting 50,000 won on close friends wouldn’t be so bad. However, can I think of it as an appropriate opportunity to express my intimacy in consideration of a good relationship in the future?
The same is true at work. Regardless of department and rank, 100,000 won is a good deal of congratulations if you are a co-worker who meets often and will be around in the future. If you are the goalkeeper on the same team, Rep. Lee, thinking of 100,000 won instead of 50,000 won may be a good investment for a peaceful working life in the future. Also, whether or not I am in charge of my staff review is a factor worth considering.
◇ “If parents know, 200,000 won”
If you are a friend who really cares, a friend who knows each other’s parents, 200,000 won is worth preparing to congratulate. Of course, if your current wallet situation is not good, you can pay 100,000 won. If you are considering 200,000 won, there is also the option to collect money with close friends and present the necessary items for the honeymoon. Also, if you have a relationship like this, you don’t need to show your closeness with numbers or prove your own friendship. Focus on having an amount that you think is appropriate or a gift that you want to give.
◇ “If you’re embarrassed, pass it on” Unfortunately, the next opportunity, not the next life
If you feel embarrassed beyond embarrassment after receiving the wedding invitation, it is worth considering not attending the wedding. Mobile wedding invitations are common and they often receive wedding invitations from acquaintances and former students who have not been contacted. If you’re not sure if the other person will be coming to my wedding, boldly buying chicken for 50,000 won may be a good option. Also, let’s say ‘congratulations’ in a sincere phrase to Ji Ji-yeon, an intern who was not contacted for a year after leaving the company.
Tip. Where to pay the gift money
You who have determined the amount of money for a gift. He arrived at the entrance of the wedding hall with the precious cash found at the ATM. If you don’t have a gift bag, you don’t have to look for nearby office supplies. Look for a gift envelope on one side of the wedding hall. You can write a congratulatory phrase like “Happy Marriage” on the front of the envelope and write your affiliation and name vertically on the back. Even if you are Korean, not Chinese, it is okay if the other person can recognize you well. Find the guest’s congratulations box, write the guest book, and insert the envelope to receive a valuable meal ticket. Don’t worry, the person in charge will take care of it if you have replaced it as a gift.
In the case of absence to the wedding, it is usual to give a congratulatory gift through an acquaintance. Recently, due to the implementation of social distancing, the number of people attending weddings has been limited, so the number of people who only send congratulations to the account is increasing. In this case, simple mobile remittance services like Kakao Pay are sometimes used. The advantage is that you can send money without asking for an account number and it feels like sending it in a real envelope.
