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Even after getting married, Nasir Hossain, one of Bangladesh’s cricket ‘bad boys’, has led to controversy. They got married on February 14. Everyone thought that perhaps this time Nasir would leave all his controversial work and settle down. But this marriage has also created new problems. Nasir’s wife, Tamima Tammir, was previously married. She married Nasir without divorcing her husband! Tamima also has a 9-year-old daughter in that family. Kaler Kantha spoke with Tamima’s first husband, Rakib Hasan, about the matter. Rakib Hasan told the story of his marriage and his family.
Rakib began like this: ‘I married for love. In fact, he married me under duress. He said, you’re getting married, otherwise my mother is going to marry me. At first we had a court marriage in Tangail. Then we got married in Barisal. I have married my wife twice. Then I started the family. When he came to me after passing SSC after the start of the family, I saw that his result was good. At that time the parents said that there was no need to teach the wife much. If you read more, your wife will fly away. I got into a fight with my parents. In the end, his words came true.
Referring to the birth of a daughter, Rakib said: ‘My father was telling me, if you want to teach him, take him to Dhaka. I brought it to Dhaka. I took a job as a manager in a showroom. I started renting a sublet house. I admitted it to Kumudini. I have one day off a week. I would take it or bring it. Meanwhile, conceive. Then his mother (Rakib’s mother-in-law) gave him wisdom, now if he has a son, the family is over. So they (Tamima’s family) took her away and gave her an abortion. Then when she conceived the second time, her family still asked her to have an abortion. But by the grace of God, that girl came to earth. He is now 9 years old. ‘
So she (Tamima) took a job. At that time we did not have a large house in Sector 10 of Uttara. A few months later, he rented a house and quit his job in anger. Then again I took a house within my means in Sector 14. Then he said, my dream is to be a stewardess; You help me. So I said, no problem. He says, ‘Do you believe me?’ I said yes.’ He then applied for a job at Saudi Airlines. I managed to prepare it with two or three lakh rupees with great difficulty. Plus, I did all kinds of help. ‘
‘After getting the job, I would give myself Rs 20,000 in a month, not in a month. The cost to our family was 50 lakhs. His mother didn’t like giving me money. So he used to stay with us. I brought two sisters-in-law and mother-in-law to take care of me when I was a child. I used to say, my daughter will give me money, why her husband? So I said, well, give all the money to your mother. He will lead the family. This is how my mother-in-law became the owner of the house.
Regarding the role of the mother-in-law in the family, she said: ‘At one point, my mother-in-law started giving my wife the idea that you are now a stewardess; And her husband is a showroom manager. Your status does not match. In this way, Tamima slowly began to keep both sides straight. She also had a boyfriend; The name is Alok. I warn you when I find out. Then he apologized to me and said he had broken up with her. That will never happen again. I also looked at the girl’s face and forgave her.
‘From then on, her mother couldn’t stand me. Seeing no way out, I left the girl with her and took a separate house. He used to go see the girl in the morning and in the evening. He used to go to his mother’s house from work. He also used to come to my house. We would meet at the hotel, we would eat at the restaurant, we would go to my brother’s house. He used to come with me to my house. He arrived in the country with a 15-day license before closing. So his mother wouldn’t let him out. When the girl called, she said, busy. He didn’t feel anything for me or his daughter.
That’s how it went. At one point I saw a video clip of her wedding on the 14th. I don’t even know when she will come to the country. I was surprised to see the video! I did a GD about it on the 17th. Everyone knew this after doing the GD. Then a journalist with my brother went to my mother-in-law’s house. Then he said, ‘Who is Rakib? I don’t know any Rakib. After showing the photo to the journalist, he called Nasir. Then Nasir called me. I gave that audio clip to the media. ‘
Finally, Rakib said in a tearful voice: ‘How can one’s wife marry another? In fact, I want authorization. She tells the reporter that she divorced me, but was unable to show the divorce papers. She claims that she is posting a divorce letter. But neither I nor my family received that letter. She (Tamima) used to come to see me and tell me that she wants to marry someone else. Or Nasir would come and tell me they want to get married. He used to marry me with permission. I do not care. Because love is not forced, the girl cries after watching the video. He is looking for his mother.
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