Scheana Shay suffered a heartbreaking loss.
In the Friday episode of her podcast “Scheananigans with Scheana Shay,” the 35-year-old “Vanderpump Rules” star revealed that she recently had a miscarriage.
“A few weeks ago, we found out she was pregnant,” the episode began. “And for those of you who have followed my fertility journey, I am freezing my eggs. The last year and a half, I did two rounds, one in January and one in July, and I didn’t think I could get pregnant alone. “
Shay explained that her doctors told her that it would be “almost impossible” to become pregnant, so she didn’t think about anything when she initially missed her period and became ill one morning after drinking. The reality star saw a Tarot card reader who told him that “he has a son today if [she] He wants it. “However, Shay thought the reader was referring to his frozen eggs.
Still, she decided to have a pregnancy test after her reading and called her boyfriend, Brock Davies, since he was in San Diego at the time. The test was positive, so it took four more.
Eventually she went to a doctor for a blood test and was told she was “two or three weeks pregnant.” The couple was “really excited,” with Shay especially excited to tell her father about Father’s Day.
“We did this to him like a surfboard that said: He is Dutch and in Dutch he is called Grandma and Grandpa Opa and Oma, and we have these letters as stickers.” And she said: ‘Only the best parents meet Opas’. And we were very excited to give this to them for Father’s Day, ”he shared.
But she began to worry about her pregnancy after celebrating Davies’ birthday.
“We got home from dinner and not to be graphic, but I went to the bathroom and there was blood,” he said. “And I know that it is normal to detect it in the first trimester. So I’m like, ‘Okay, this is more than I’d like to see. But like, I’m fine. I’m fine. It’ll be alright. ‘”
She added: “The next morning I get up and see all over the Internet that Stassi is pregnant and I say to her, ‘OMG, like we’re pregnant together!'”
“I’m like, I wonder how far along it is, how he announced so early,” he continued. “I was like, I swear we were all drinking when we filmed the meeting, but maybe she had a drill like, I don’t know. And then I see this. Obviously I send her a congratulatory text message, but I don’t say anything about myself because not only I started bleeding the night before and I am concerned that I have a miscarriage, it was too early. I was only, I think at the time, about five weeks. So I was not telling anyone but my two best friends, my mother and sister obviously brock. “
Unfortunately, that weekend in San Diego, she “felt bad” and was “bleeding all weekend.”
“My OB took me early, they did an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat,” he explained as he began to choke. “There was nothing progressing, nothing was happening inside. There were only parts that I could see beginning to form, and just not. Obviously [that was] Simply devastating. We were so excited and then just being excited for a few weeks and then everything went so fast. It has still been a lot of processing. “
He concluded that he is now “hoping to abort naturally.”
“[I] I have to go back to my doctor this week so we can do another ultrasound because now I’m literally sitting here waiting, feeling normal, but I still treat my body like I’m pregnant, which is a complete mind f – k, because I know I don’t. There is progress, but there is still something there and I have not passed it yet, “he said.” So I have to go back on Friday and find out exactly what is happening and what the next steps are. “