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Life Center / Xu Shuling Report
Three incidents of regret occurred at Taiwan University in five days, sparking attention from all walks of life. Guo Yezhen, Associate Professor at the Department of Early Childhood and Family Education at Taipei University of Education and a well-known author, shared his views on the “Guo Yezhen” fan page. She mentioned that recent reports of student suicide at National Taiwan University may be because her daughter also graduated from National Taiwan University and has a melancholic physique. Several friends from the media asked him what he thought about it. He noted that “the pursuit of excellence that is praised by society is very bad.”
▲ Three weighing incidents occurred at National Taiwan University in five days. Guo Yezhen pointed out that “the pursuit of excellence that is praised by society is very wrong.” (Photo by reporter Chen Yi)
Guo Yezhen shared that he took this issue to heart for a few days, thinking in his heart that although depression is related to physiological factors, that is, brain chemicals, it cannot be denied that people and things in life do trigger the worsening depression. .
Guo Yezhen first thought about the pressure of the midterm exam, and thought about it, the more he thought about it, the more he went to the root of the problem and began to feel that “the pursuit of excellence that is praised by society is very bad. ” He explained that there is a “Peter Principle” in sociology, which means that in the bureaucratic system, people will be promoted to incompetent high-level positions due to certain characteristics or special abilities.
He further explained that the meaning of this sentence is that if the pursuit of excellence is the goal, we will climb a ladder, a ladder. After climbing this ladder, due to the pursuit of excellence, people have to find a higher ladder to climb. Just climb, climb, climb until one day, and finally climb to a place where you can barely reach, you will be proud of yourself, but the ecstasy will not last long, and little by little you will find yourself in this group. Rats, untouchables, last.
Then you can use various adjectives to describe the feelings of being in it: fear, worry, out of place, feeling that it is not good enough, that it does not work hard enough, and that it is not worth living in this world. Guo Yezhen pointed out that “this is exactly the frame of mind that melancholic people would have” and “in such a situation all the time, I can imagine it as desperate.”
▲ Guo Yezhen said that she does not like her children’s pursuit of excellence, she likes them to do what she likes. (Photo / Obtained from Facebook of Guo Yezhen)
Guo Yezhen said, therefore, that she does not like her children’s pursuit of excellence. She likes them to do what they love. As for excellence, it is a natural by-product of doing what they love. You can be great, or you don’t need to be great, just eat. She told her children that as long as she can support herself and not hurt others, “I am honored that they are responsible for their life.” Guo Yezhen said, as for your children, have they fallen and stagnated due to this low level? “No way”. Their accomplishments now far outweigh their support for themselves.
In the end, Guo Yezhen pointed out that in order to strive for excellence to beat others, sooner or later he will despise himself because he cannot climb. Do what you want and enjoy your moments of satisfaction. People will feel like they are in the world of electric toys. The “Qiangqiangqiang” bonus points will be heard constantly and will remain in this happy world.
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