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The condemned mother is said to have rushed into a classroom, turned to a little student and said, “You must not bully my child, I will shoot you in the head!”
And it is said that the guy who was threatening his classmates explained that they were intimidating him.
I wonder if the wrong parties were not considered victims in both situations.
No, I don’t have any additional information about what happened in either context. It’s just that I instinctively feel like it’s the bullies in both cases who should have been punished. Not the ones who have been bullied.
I think the mother was brave. Too impulsive, confident, and not so careful to choose his words. But if you are holy pissed off, you don’t think about what you say, you just want to defend your child from someone who does it wrong. You want to scare that person, be it very small or not, someone hurts the one you love the most in this world, you have to stop him! And because no one else is doing anything, because everyone else is just looking or rather looking away, it is very difficult to deal with this, gentlemen, it is not that dangerous, it is supposed to stop on its own and it is not that bullied kid quite unbearable ? – because nobody intervenes, because it goes on and on, there is only one way out: do something for yourself that is seen, felt and felt. If you have the courage and power at all.
Man is man’s wolf, that’s what it’s called. Even small people can be predators.
A very nice acquaintance of mine once told me that she and some of her friends had been bullying a classmate for years and that from time to time she had come to think about it and had a bad conscience. One day, several decades after he left school, he sees the person who has been involved in bullying on a field trip and thinks that now I have a chance, now I can apologize for how we behave and thus get some peace of mind . He approached the person in question with a friendly smile, but just as they made eye contact, the now probably sixty-year-old woman froze and turned demonstratively on her heel. She did not intend to be manipulated into forgiving.
Bullies, whatever their origin, are the strongest party. They always win in the short term. They get an outlet for their rudeness, no matter what it takes root in. And if the elders do something about it, it often ends up with someone who can change schools: the bullied, not the ones who should.
We are much more aware that bullying occurs now than when I was a child, but never that the bullying has ceased to exist. Man is man’s wolf, that’s what it’s called. Even small people can be predators.
The guy who verbally threatened to kill his goons probably didn’t mean it literally and the hostile comrades probably didn’t think so either. But now they, and not him, will take damage.
And the angry mother has also received her sentence.
Knowing nothing about these particular situations, I can feel a strong sympathy for both of them, not least for the mother.
There are many young children that you regret not having violently paid attention to your ears in the past.
