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Sophie Elise (25) became a household name to most people when she became a blogger a decade ago. Since then, she has had her own television series, started a brand of self-tanners, and written three books.
The latest book, “Things I’ve Learned”, is coming out these days and VG rewarded him with five dollars on the dice. In Dagbladet, the verdict was stricter and the dice had three eyes.
Here the reviewer expresses concern about bluntness about abdomen shame.
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“In other words, its extreme focus on self-shame may do more harm than good, an ambiguity for which it has also been criticized in other contexts,” he says.
In the book, the influencer, whose real name is Sofie Steen Isachsen, openly recounts several experiences she has had in life, where the common denominator is shame.
Hidden intimate surgery
One of the issues is, among other things, her own abdomen and having big lips. Isachsen says she had complexes about her bottom appearance and says, among other things, that it was uncomfortable to be stepped on.
The complexes went so far that he finally decided to lie under the knife. The 25-year-old has undergone a series of operations in the past, about which she has been very open. The outspokenness has drawn much criticism, with influencer Kristin Gjelsvik calling her “Norway’s most dangerous role model.”
– Spitting in the working day
On her own podcast, she has previously said that she chose to have her abdomen operated. In the book he also tells in detail about the operation, among other things that he did not tell anyone what he had done until much later.
Among other things, she writes that her then boyfriend and partner did not know anything about the operation.
“I had made sure to book the operation until early in the morning so that when I was done and came home, my roommate would be at work. Then I could just lie on the bed and explain it by saying I had period pain or something. and I was bleeding enormously, and therefore I had to wear a very strong bandage, ”he writes in the book.
In the three weeks it took her abdomen to heal, she kept what had happened hidden. The then-girlfriend shouldn’t have discovered that nothing was different.
“Terribly hurt”
Isachsen also takes the reader to the operating rooms. Also remember how painful everything was.
“It was terribly painful to walk. It hurt to lie down. It hurt to exist. I did not feel the least joy of having performed the operation,” he also writes.
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For Dagbladet, she emphasizes that it is not her current boyfriend, Kasper Kristoffersen (25), from whom she hid the operation.
– I didn’t feel comfortable telling anyone. It had nothing to do with him, he just didn’t want to tell anyone, she says.
It wasn’t until the topic came up at a girls’ party that Isachsen spoke about the operation. In other words, no one but her and the hospital knew what she was doing.
– It was very strange and very lonely. No matter what you do, whether it’s something like that or something else that feels big or difficult, if you don’t tell someone, of course it’s lonely no matter what, she says.
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You want less shame
Isachsen says he never planned to reveal his secret.
– I hadn’t decided to tell anyone, it just happened.
The book team ends with the 25-year-old writer that the feeling of shame has not gone away and that it is the conversations with other people about her own abdomen that have made her feel more comfortable, not the operation.
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Additionally, she writes that she hopes her story can help reduce shame around women’s genitalia.
When asked by Dagbladet what kind of relationship she has with her abdomen today, she responds with a smile:
– I don’t think about it that much. It is there now.
As mentioned, Isachsen has been criticized for her bluntness about the cosmetic operations she has undergone. Among other things, this was the topic during the “Debate” in 2019.
