Professor K. Dorofėja on female energy sources and thieves: a woman can make any man a millionaire | Lifetime

Four sources of energy for a woman.

According to the interlocutor, a woman is by nature a giver, a container from which everyone drinks. This is also their purpose in the family: to generate energy, the quality of which is even how much a man earns, or his healthy children, i. and. all the well-being of the family. And to have something to give, she has to get energy from somewhere herself.

“I recently discovered how important it is for a woman to be in nature. Nature, which is perfect in itself, structures us and changes us. It is not for nothing that the earth is often associated with the mother. And not in vain are women highly recommended to walk barefoot underground. I would add that it is very healthy for women to wear a long skirt because a long skirt creates a closed space and draws energy from the floor. If you ask any man which woman is most beautiful to him: wear pants or a skirt, everyone will reply with a skirt.

Another element of nature is water, which removes all negative emotions. If you feel emotionally ill, it is very healthy to stand under running water or just dip your head in it. I have personally tried the Baltic Sea to cleanse myself of negative emotions. When you are angry with the whole world, let the waves come and go to remove all the unnecessary: ​​all the anger, the pain. Really works

As for the fire element, it should be noted that it both heats up and burns. A woman at home can also heat up and burn, creating paradise and hell.

Finally, the fourth element, air, is what unites all these elements. It is everywhere. The newborn baby, after receiving the first breath of air, begins to scream, and when we die we breathe out with the last breath. Therefore, breathing exercises are highly recommended for women. By breathing deeply, we exhale our fear, anxiety, stress, otherwise all the negative emotions accumulate in our body and promote the appearance of various diseases, “said K. Dorofėja.

The second source of energy for a woman, according to the teacher, is creative activity. No matter what: dancing, singing, writing, reading, sewing … Women need to do at least 5 minutes a day of what they like to do, because this is how they get energy, inspiration.

A woman can heat and burn at home, creating paradise and hell.

The third source of energy is the feminine communion. The fact that women today are quite active in various clubs, groups, communities and camps also shows that it is really necessary, because in this way they gain support and understanding from each other. One of these meetings, a sensory camp for women in the water, is organized by the interlocutor herself.

Four female energy thieves

“We have already discovered where a woman can get energy. It remains to be seen who is” stealing “her energy. First of all, she is hurt. When there is a lot of anger inside, many unfulfilled expectations directed at others, there is no room for joy, love and relaxation The woman is constantly in something angry and unhappy.

There are a variety of methodologies and practices that help trigger pain. You need to find the ones that work best for you. For example, it is sometimes necessary to reconnect with the parent. If the relationship between the daughter and the father is problematic, the roots of the so-called woman are damaged, so it is very likely that she does not have a harmonious relationship with her husband, because he has not healed the roots, is in a lot of pain and already wants fruits.

Also, the opposite of love and joy is fear, although it is basically an illusion of the mind when we think about how it can be. There is an easy way to overcome fear: do what you fear. For example, many women are afraid to release a man with whom they are constantly in conflict because they believe that one will not survive. And both parties suffer from this fear. As soon as you act, you will see that only the eyes of fear are large, and in fact everything is much simpler, “said the interlocutor.

The third thief is shame, guilt, and a sense of duty. Often a woman lives with the disposition that she must do one thing or another. For example, if I don’t visit my parents, I feel guilty. If I take the time for myself, I feel guilty for taking it away from my family.

According to the teacher, a woman must understand that she has to do what she wants, not what she has to do. Only then does inner joy appear. When you want to sleep, sleep without any fault, when you want to do some activity, do it. The word of a man is “essential” and the word of a woman is “I want”, i. and. a woman must learn to enjoy and want to do something, not outside the office.

The opposite of love and joy is fear, although it is basically just an illusion of the mind when we think about how it can be.

It is from this state that satisfaction and energy that nurtures the family arise. The woman is the charger and the man is the phone. What energy will a woman charge a man, so will the phone and talk to her. This is how diamonds, gifts, travel, respect at home come to a woman, i. and. she must first have something to give.

“If your family finances are good, you understand that you are doing everything right. I can testify of this from my experience: now I work and earn much less than ever, but I ‘work’ more at home. My husband was in a very difficult financial situation when we met. Now she earns four times more than she did then, and she admits that I have contributed to her success. Basically, the saying that a woman can make any man a millionaire is true. Not surprisingly, strong women are always next door of successful men.

And if women talk to each other about a man, that he will be where he pushes, there will never be money, and a woman will not feel like a wall behind him. There must be respect. Therefore, when women talk about their husbands in this way, it is already clear to me about their relationship. If you want a man to bring you a trap, praise him, of course, for the results, not in vain as a little boy.

So a woman’s work is at home. The man goes out to conquer the world, gets tired, and returns home to rest. The woman has to rest at work, do her favorite activity and return home to work. In other words, a woman should not go to work to pay her bills, but to enjoy her work.

I used to work as a man and returned home with nothing to give the family. I felt tired and everything bothered me. However, she is a woman who creates an atmosphere at home, so she must realize that she cannot work too much, get tired at work and be at home, because only she can give her family something instead of demanding that someone Give her something and make her happy. “Coach.

Another energy thief, gossip, in which women really like to participate, unaware that this is how they distribute themselves, drains their energy. After all, criticism of others speaks of a woman’s low self-esteem, because when you talk to another, she gets up, as if you know better how she should live, although if she is in that man’s situation, it could get worse.

To prevent man from becoming a pillow, stop controlling it

Often a modern woman feels very strong, so she often controls her loved ones consciously or unconsciously because “I know better how to do it.” These women guard the four corners of the house, but they are angry that this is the case.

“We need to stop expressing ourselves and allow the other party or family to contribute. It doesn’t matter that a man buys less bread the first time, not the one you think is the tastiest. Let it work. This will cut off all the corners of your shoulders. Let that people are who they are, stop controlling the man, the children. A woman does not need to have control of anything in the family. The captain of the ship, the strategist, is a man. And if a woman takes the position of a man, all you have to do is sit on the couch and turn into another cushion.

It doesn’t matter that a man doesn’t buy that much bread the first time. Let it work. This will cut off all the corners of your shoulders.

An energetically strong woman can express herself perfectly at work, in her sphere of activity, but at the door of the house it is necessary to take off the shoulders and become simply loving and gentle, because with a woman of masculine energy it is not interesting for a man to sleep if you have a normal orientation. Also, when two men appear at home, a competition begins. I used to live like this before: I liked to dominate everywhere, to show myself, even though I didn’t really get anything at all. And when a strong man appears next to you, you don’t have to prove anything to anybody, because it’s a lot of fun for you when a man dominates, “said K. Dorofėja.

Often a woman would object: what if a man has been thinking for so long how to do a job or another that has already been done 10 times?

“This is true. The feminine energy spins 10 times faster. The woman has just thought and already has a decision and can take action. The man is still thinking for a while, he needs more time. However, this does not mean that one woman has to rush to make decisions for a man. Give him space and he will do everything at his own pace and in his own time. Then you will not make your husband another son, “advised the interviewee.

Until you have expectations, you won’t be happy

According to her, a big mistake that women make is that they think they can shape and change a man however they want.

“Expectations are children of disappointment. If you have a certain expectation in a man (or boys) that he will be like this, he will, he will win both, you are immediately doomed to pain because the other person is not forced to follow your made-up program. If you love a man, you must accept him for what he is. If he decides to do something of his own free will, without pressure or commitment, he will. But you cannot demand it, you can only work with yourself.

And if you get angry with a man, withdraw from him, leave him alone and work with yourself: calm down and try to understand why this happened, what you did not do, because according to the energy sustainability law, what energy do we send, those comments. During a conflict, you can lather, excel, blame someone else, and you can ask yourself the question: Do I want to be happy or correct? The two things are incompatible. You cannot be both correct and happy. Perhaps really, what is the difference, whose truth? If harmony and happiness in a relationship are important to you, then its truth is not worth testing.

A man’s behavior towards a woman is only feedback due to the effort she puts into it.

This attitude helps me a lot, because it is a path of love in which you understand that if it is important that you feel happy yourself and that your partner feels happy, it does not matter at all who apologized and how many times. Instead of waiting for a man to drop to his knees to kiss her feet, take responsibility for this relationship yourself, go and create it so that happiness and harmony appear in it, “said the professor.

According to the interlocutor, the man’s behavior towards the woman is only feedback due to the efforts she made. If there is no harmony in the family, that man loses the motivation to do something because he no longer has the energy to do it. And all you have to do is look for a charger somewhere else. It can be anything: work, alcohol, another woman …

Does this mean that a woman must be ready to always adapt to a man? “I never thought about it, whether I applied to a man or not. It is important to me that I feel good in the process, and I also understand that the treatment that the man gives me is the result of my efforts. I feel one hundred percent .responsible for what happens to me in the relationship. If we want to get something in them, first we have to give something. If a woman is constantly angry, tired, you demand it, unless she demands love with guilt. The man, feeling guilty, he will buy some gift, as if he were “obstructing” the need for love.

Only when a woman will feel good both with her husband, and when he is not and when there is no man, i. and. you will not have expectations, she will become really happy. It is not for nothing that no man will make an unhappy woman happy. So a woman must first focus on herself and participate in activities that make her happy. I need, for example, silence, meditation, breathing exercises and sports in the morning. Then I gain energy, “said K. Dorofėja.

A brief practice of loving yourself

According to the professor, women often do not receive positive comments from a man because they do not feel worthy, so in the morning it offers a simple practice. Stand in front of a mirror and say, “Dear, I love you so much.” It may sound funny at first, but after a while you will understand how it works.

“I did this practice in the camp and many women could not say these words to themselves. When a woman does not love herself, a great emptiness opens up inside her and she begins to look for where to obtain love. Then the demands about the husband they are born to show attention to whether one goes through the head for a career at work. All this, out of self-love and lack of fulfillment. And fulfillment is created by gratitude when you feel grateful for all you have now , including lessons. In my time, I even glued flyers on the mirror with the words “I’m happy.” Those notes can be all kinds of things: I’m beautiful, healthy, sexy, and generous.

When you drink coffee in the morning, try to enjoy it; don’t solve any of life’s difficulties at that time. Choose clothes and jewelry according to your mood. They do not have to be practical and weather resistant. Also remember that a woman’s underwear is visible in her eyes. A woman does not have to look for anything and wait. You need to radiate. If it is empty as a bucket, no man will come to her, since she has nothing to give, and the man needs to be carried. That is why it is necessary for a woman to concentrate on herself, she needs several trainings, practices, meetings with other women, activities that make her happy and happy, “said the interlocutor.