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Recently, a famous man first posted on Facebook how he spends his free time with his daughters, rides a bicycle, and also posted a message from his wife, in which he writes that the condition of the bikes is not satisfactory.
Egmont told the tv3.lt news portal a version of his story and opened up about why his divorce case is unlikely to finally close soon. And although he admitted that he never wanted to talk about divorce in public, this time E. Bžeskas decided to break the silence and present his version: he believes that people will choose for themselves what to believe.
You shared how you ride a bike with your daughters on Facebook, and also added a message from Reda to the videos saying that bikes are not good. What exactly happened?
I got a pretty bad message from my wife. We spent the whole day with the kids, riding bikes, and I specifically posted a video so people could see that everything was really fine with those bikes. I didn’t want to humiliate Reda, I just wanted to joke that we are always guilty.
Yes, they were bought second hand because at the time I was picking them up, the bike shops were closed due to quarantine. Both Reda and the boys were informed about it, and the bicycle photos chosen by the girls were sent to Rede, everything was coordinated. I had no suspicion that there would be a global drama. I bought those bikes, the girls were waiting for them like a miracle! Then the bike shops were also opened, so we put the brand new additional wheels, everything was fine, the bikes were serviced.
I didn’t think that message on Facebook would get so much attention. I found it strange that he was so maliciously taken into account that he had bought bicycles, and now he has turned even more that I am supposedly advertising, I do not know children.
The image is that if I want to be with the children and I have time for that, the dates are especially limited: Reda says that the father is making an announcement. And if I’m away, then it intensifies that Dad spends very little time with the children. This is slander intended to humiliate me against society. I assure you that I am always with the children as much as possible, because they are my most precious property at the moment.
Are you in a relationship with Reda just for the kids?
Really only for children, otherwise there would be no possibility. We both try not to show our tension to children; children don’t really feel it. And I hope they don’t feel it anymore if this whole ship doesn’t sway. Now I only care about the well-being of children: I see gaps in the current situation, and I certainly will not be indifferent to that.
Egmont Beskes and his wife Reda
You mentioned that sometimes it is difficult for you to schedule a meeting with your daughters, why? I can not agree?
I am allowed to see children, but now I live in Tenerife, I have projects there. This was the first case of all the time when I spent 2 months babysitting, and when I came back I immediately went into another quarantine situation, when Reda had gone to Spain and then was quarantined in Lithuania, waiting for another week. [tyrimo] Answers As a result, I spent a month in quarantine with the children; I was very happy about it, I had no problem, I didn’t ask her for money, as she does.
But my wife demanded money from me for another month after that. After consulting with attorneys, I did not pay this month because it is money for children, including additional costs during quarantine. She says she has to ask me for money, but that is slander! Only, of course, she does not necessarily receive alimony on the 15th of the month. If you receive maintenance for 20 days, you treat it as a permanent delay. All the tiles are in the court, everything is visible there.
I always paid alimony on time, and when the girls are with me, I buy them clothes, toys, etc. I do this with all my heart and I am calm because I am buying it for them. In paying Redai’s alimony, I have no control over where the money is spent. I have noticed that children get used to fast food, walking in the wrong shoes other than the ones I bought. As a result, we had a conflict: the shoes had to be orthopedic.
I say this because I don’t want to lose control of what happens in girls’ lives. I don’t avoid them, as Reda says. I can put them in my care and reveal this false story.
When I went to Tenerife to work, with all the necessary documents attached, Reda gave me to the bailiffs and sued me with the largest amounts for going abroad and not taking the children during those few weeks. For the first time, I heard that if you do not pick up the children, you will still receive additional fines, even if you pay alimony. I will not pick them up again when I return, but I need to consult amicably: here are the interests of the children. But I have my life and my important jobs, so sometimes I can’t satisfy all their malevolent lusts under the guise of child welfare issues. When I’m in Lithuania, I want to meet children more than I should, but right now it’s prohibited.
Their divorce has been going on for over 3 years. Do you see the end?
No, not visible. There are many confusing things that she mentions: how we are supposedly attacking her here with my mother, how we ask for money. However, this is not the case.
As a man, I did not ask for anything in my life, but instead supported my family because Reda started working very recently. She has not worked since the birth of her first child, and I really had to work very hard to support my family, pay a significantly higher alimony, to take care of all the kindergarten payments.
It is no secret that Reda rented our family home without a job. Similarly, he rented the house in Tenerife as best he could without my consent. All his well-being was put in order. In addition, he borrowed money from friends that he had to cover and left the Tenerife house with the biggest debts I had to pay. I have gathered all the necessary documents.
The situation is very strange. I’m just defending myself, because such a position was taken from the start, when certain things came up, which I certainly won’t comment on now. He immediately accepted the position of the attacker and adheres to it, so the image arises that I always have to defend myself, although I really do not understand why they accuse me of certain things.
Egmont Beskes and his wife Reda
Our main conflict with Reda from the beginning was seeing the children for 7 days. While the dispute over our house continued, I even rented an apartment to have a children’s room. But now I see children become tourists with suitcases. The girls come to me for a week and spend the night, getting used to a new place, although there is insomnia in the first nights. And then they experience stress again when I return them to my mother because they are used to me already. Then we decided that this should be done in kindergarten. This means that as children we only change in kindergarten so that children do not feel stressed.
However, children really do have to live in their own room. If Rede is currently given full attention, I think I can take the children all day during those 7 days a month, allowing them to work, and at night I have to return them to their room, for their own well-being. However, this was strictly prohibited by Reda: I will continue to see them only when we have agreed.
Now everything goes as if he was advertising me, but for the first time, I posted a photo with the kids on Facebook for the first time, as we spent the day. I had hoped to teach them to ride the same bike the next day, but decided not to give the boy any more. Maybe it turned out to be too good for me. is received And you can’t slander me anymore because Dad doesn’t take care of the kids? Reda’s conclusion is that if I return the children to him at night and spend only a few days with them, I have no right to see them.
The image emerges that Reda only wants 7 full days off per month. But if Reda writes me as many letters as it is difficult for her, how stressed she is and unable to work, then I say the opposite: I can really take the children to her full care. To this day, I only care about the well-being of children, only about the children I now live and work in, and I find it very painful that the children are only being used.
If she had to tell the whole story of what’s going on here, it would definitely be a reality show, as she herself says. I don’t know how things will end here, because it was my policy not to say anything on behalf of children who didn’t know the real truth at some point in their lives about how they treated me for a while. Really, hand in hand, I can say: I don’t know if other parents of the children have suffered such injustice.
Egmont Beskes and his wife Reda
When will you see your daughters now?
A month ago, we agreed to see them from May 4 to 11 at that uninterrupted time that is very convenient for her. But I don’t think it’s good for children. I really want to see my daughters and be with them all the time, but it will all happen the same way: tourists with suitcases will return to Kaunas for 7 days.
We will have a great time, but if I upload photos to Facebook with the girls, it will turn out that I am advertising here, when in fact I do not do any tournament.
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