His wife also spoke about Šimashi’s divorce: when I was left alone, the whole world suddenly collapsed.

In the social network, the woman said that this period was not easy for her.

In fact the woman wrote: “We are no longer the way we are here. An unexpected, traumatic and one-sided decision, like Remigijus Šimašius himself. and writes. I went through the entire fall without seeing the fall. When I was left alone, the whole world suddenly collapsed. For a while, no one seemed real: a table, my clothes, a chair … I felt slandered and abandoned with pain.

I tried to stay in it. Keep your heart beating, breaking your heart. The meat was very bad. The sympathetic nervous system did not shut down in any way, which meant a constant taste of metal in the mouth, muscle tremors, crazy weight loss. There was a time when it weighed as much as twelve. It looked like he had a fatal disease. It was a disease. A disease of love whose response has just ceased. And yet I worked and tried to keep the children, the dog, and the house alone. One of the scariest experiences was waking up in the middle of the night to find yourself sitting and crying …

Have you experienced this? I finally started to get out of it. Thanks to friends, family, time … little by little I began to believe that I could survive this too. Somehow. No, divorce is never good for the children in this case. Children respond to divorce more neutrally or even favorably only when they see that their parents have had a bad time in marriage. Violent. Tortured In our case, there was nothing like it.

By the time Remigijus admitted that he lacked joy and an unexpected departure from the house to “think”, the children had heard that their mother was very dear, had no mercy for more than a minute together, carried flowers, drank coffee together and planned trips . So the whole world fell apart for the children as they knew it until now. And yet if you ask me, “Have you managed to build a successful family with Remigijus?”

Now, having at least gotten through the initial circles of separation anxiety, I can say yes. Really so. We had a wonderful family. Happy family. It seemed to be a very open-speaking family. A union of two very strong people who support each other. For which I am very grateful to Remigijus. Only, unfortunately, this family of ours didn’t last forever, which at least I really expected. “If you had known there would be a lack of openness at the end, wouldn’t you have created this marriage?” Maybe I wouldn’t have, because in the end, this final pain was really too much for me. Suddenly I felt like I was burying the closest person, our house was surrounded by fire and someone else was trying to steal future dreams.

But on the other hand, maybe it’s good that he can’t know that ending from the beginning in any way. And yet I want to wish you certainty. Diversity of feelings. All feeling palettes. Don’t take a sample from us. Invest in your relationship. Abu. Constantly. Build relationships together. Be responsible. Speak very, very openly and constantly. I want to understand that relationships are a constant dance. That it is impossible to exhaust the relationship of a loved one.

Yesterday R. Šimašius soc. wrote online:

“This time it is not about Vilnius, but about me. I want to share a very difficult decision for me about the family. Do not leave room in advance for the interpretation and manipulation of rumors or narrations.

After sixteen years of living together, eleven years of marriage, I decided to divorce. The decision is far from being impulsive or reckless, on the contrary, it is felt strongly, it is reconsidered many times, it is measured, even during the few months that I live alone ”.

For Šimašius’s interview on family and married life, see:

According to him, it is natural for my friends and anyone to ask “why?”

“Unfortunately, there is usually no very simple answer to life’s most important questions in a sentence, and attempts to formulate it seem too lax. In any case, I accept the divorce and the fact that I have to take this step as my defeat, I have to admit, as painful as it is.

This decision does not change the fact that we had beautiful moments together during those sixteen years, we did not lack the respect and support of others, for which I am grateful to Agne.

Agnė is a strong, sincere and good person, from whom I learned a lot, to whom I am very grateful, and a very good mother. However, in the long term, the relationship has not been maintained to provide joy and contribute to the happiness that we all deserve.

Legal proceedings will also start shortly. However, this time, for the sake of all the people dear to me, especially children, I ask for your human understanding, and the media in particular. There will be no further public comment from me on this issue, ”says R. Šimašius.

R. Šimašius, 47, has been married to Agne Matulaitė for 11 years. Raise three children together.