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E.Bžeskas and R.Bžeskienė turn in different ways decided in early 2016. According to Egmont, the difficult decision was made by the couple by consensus. However, the divorce process took much longer than expected, and there is no way in the courts to settle not only on the property but also on the care of the children.
Now that quarantine has been introduced in the country, the legal process has continued, but the couple is addressing some problems in writing, with changes.
“All of our disputes are very serious and are resolved in closed court. At the moment, we avoid commenting on what is happening in our family,” Egmont began the conversation.
According to Egmont, the difficult decision to live separately was made by the couple by consensus. However, the divorce process took much longer than expected and an agreement was not reached in court not only on property but also on the welfare of the children. Although Egmont avoids questions about his family or divorce, this time he agreed to speak on the most important issue that concerns him: children.
“I never thought I would have to talk about personal matters, I did not respond to many of the requests from journalists. Now, I am just doing this to share my painful experiences with others about how things can happen and what can be avoided. If life in common has become hell, don’t live together, “says Egmont.
He told Reda that a family had started, but after a while he realized that he could not be saved. Now she realizes that turning around in different ways is the hardest thing for her young daughters.
“I had big projects in Lithuania, at the same time in Tenerife, I lived on airplanes, trying to fly to Lithuania as often as possible to see my daughters. Not having seen the children for a long time, I experienced great stress. In such cases, I did my best to improve our broken family.
I paid the agreed alimony, bought clothes and other things. When I wasn’t in Lithuania to make it easy for Reda to raise our little Elvija, I hired a driver for my oldest daughter. Also, Reda, who was not working at the time, rented our family home in the Canaries and another house in Lithuania so far. A little earlier, friendly negotiations took place on the situation, I hoped everything would be fair, “said E. Bžeskas.
Currently, with the introduction of quarantine in the country, the litigation has continued, but some problems are being resolved in writing by the couple, and changes are being made.
Producer 15min He said he can now see his little daughters Amelia and Elvija arranging appointments with the children’s mother in advance, 7 days a month.
“However, Reda does not tolerate my additional appointments only during the day with children. I recently gave my older daughter a phone so that we could speak in the mornings and afternoons after Reda’s hours. Amelia always asks kindly:” When Dad, see ya, “Egmont said.
Photo by Greta Skaraitienė / Žmonės.lt / Egmontas and Reda Bžeskai
He points out that there are many loopholes in a court decision, for example, a man on the days when the scheduled meetings with the daughters cannot go anywhere, they must stop all work and necessarily take the children, otherwise there is the risk of fines.
“I understand that I have time, I can, but the rules are very strict, only 7 days a month. I am convinced that communication with children can also take place during the day, and at night children need to sleep in their beds. At this point, the girls have become “tourists” with suitcases with their father on time. Changing the permanent location alters girls’ sleep patterns, as most people do. After a week of getting used to Dad, you should go back to Mom again. Girls experience stress by constantly changing their living environment, “said the producer.
However, when his wife recently left for Spain due to the quarantine, plans changed and the husband had a month to care for the children. He says he was happy then, never avoiding taking them with him.
“After the Reds left for Spain two days before quarantine, and then returned to Lithuania, I took care of the girls because I was in isolation,” said E. Brzeskas.
He agrees that, as is common in most families, it is best for children to grow up with their mother. However, E. Bžeskas says that he has never ruled out the possibility of living with his daughters in Tenerife. There he is creating a new life and, if Rede only raised the girls alone, he would take them with him.
Photo of Vigantas Ovadnevas / Žmonės.lt / Egmontas and Reda Bžeskai
Egmont, who has been living in a state of divorce for three years, says that divorce is a very sensitive issue in all families. According to him, first of all, before making the decision to change course, it is important to pass the exam and not be different, to try not to separate in every way.
“Because of the small things, families often separate unnecessarily when emotions overwhelm them. Make no mistake, because it really hurts, I am for the family, I loved him very much, I believed he would be real and inseparable. There was only one situation in the one I wouldn’t comment on. It wasn’t infidelity or other standard moments, “said E. Bžeskas.
If divorce in the family is really inevitable, Egmont is convinced that the best option is not to comment on those around him, to turn in different ways with honor and to try to protect the children as much as possible.
“It is important that children do not feel or see what is happening in the family. If you hear conflict, it is better that the husband and wife not live together, we have made that decision. ” 15min said the famous producer.
He also says he notes that in the divorce process, there are often a variety of manipulations from one side to the other, and women are not always right.
“The courts must pay attention to this, the pattern is already visible, how men are attacked, how they are pressured, how they are used. No man is affected. Of course, I do not judge women, some are going through a difficult period, but I would advise young men in important positions to put signatures everywhere.
I gave an opportunity to trust my wife, I am not a lawyer, I did not pay attention to legal matters. When you love, it is very difficult to say that it is yours and here it is, but I think a law should be passed that would put everything on the shelves at once: who owns what, what money was, what investment, “says Egmont.
Reda Bžeskienė: “I myself did not follow the order of communication with the daughters, now we laugh at all of Lithuania”
15min contacted Egeda Brzesk’s wife, Reda. She said the situation is a little different from what the famous man said.
“He does not want to see the children at all, he was fined in court 2 weeks ago, 300 euros for not communicating. What he is doing here is just a promotional trick, supposedly a superstar,” Reda did not hide his anger when he heard the ask about family disputes.
The woman said a well-known producer has been given temporary protective measures to communicate and support the girls. According to Reda, said judicial decision was made because Egmont did not meet with his daughters for 3 months.
“Now that the quarantine is sitting here and playing at being a good father, even though he will soon fly to Tenerife and the children will not see their father again in 3 months. It is very easy to organize, everything is very clearly written, even so that no one has problems, but he does not want to comply with the court order, he just wants to see the children at a time convenient for him, and when his time comes, he refuses to take the children, ”continued Reda.
The woman also added that she is the initiator of all her husband and daughter meetings, but says Egmont avoids seeing Amelia and Elvia.
“He covered himself with travel and work, then the court established the communication order, did not follow it and received a fine, now we are laughing at all of Lithuania,” said the famous woman.
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