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We all live with masks because we are human. We collect the feelings and thoughts that we can show, we hide the next part. You lead good incentives: we don’t want to offend anyone, we control our instincts. When we communicate with people or just walk down the street, we show the positive side: it is part of socializing.
However, the most attractive features can not only be displayed, but can be created or enhanced. Photoshop social.
I often hear from fans: I was disappointed. I was disappointed by the leader (young people traditionally climb the ranks of social networks): “at work is not what you do at all.” And what did you expect? That this is a superhuman free of problems?
Meeting an eagle on social media (especially if you know him) can leave you with a big surprise. You’ll see being overweight (though before it revolves around sports club stories), unemployment instead of a project-filled workday with no gap for a cup of coffee, a crashing circle of friends, and understanding luck (it was just the gloss of a photographic paper). Over time, it begins to show that success in life is inversely proportional to the number of posts on social media.
I often hear from fans: I was disappointed. The leader disappointed me (young people traditionally rise in the ranks of social networks): “at work it is not what you do at all.” And what did you expect? That this is a superhuman free of problems? The perfect guide? If you are disappointed, it means admiration, which speaks of your immaturity, the need to admire something, to live in illusion. Of course, it can be sweet.
Still, more help may be needed if one gets caught up in the pitfalls of the created image, the trap of their own success. First of all, you need to generate periodic records, you are bound to continue to represent happiness and success, which becomes not a reward that comes naturally, but a goal, much like the search for a permanent orgasm (we can imagine these efforts).
If you want to share the blizzard of life (milk spilled roughly on a dress), you do it with charm, with humor and without makeup. Even you write about serious disasters in an engaging and engaging way. For example, deliciously report a divorce. Real friends begin to exchange followers with those who have no relationship, life is slowly migrating to a virtual reality where the real currency is clicks Y laik’as. Life presented to the constant evaluation of others becomes a burden and the right to be invaluable becomes an aspiration. It is not surprising Man of influence depression, regular use of psychotropic drugs or alcohol. It would be strange not to get sick.
Do followers have to take responsibility for the health of these people? Probably not. We need to take care of our own common sense. We can simply understand that we see a reality highlighted or created. We can view this process in a damning way, we can view it as part of a business plan. We can accept it as a game or get involved in it by clicking “Like” or creating our own post.
Dr. Alisa Miniotaitė is an expert in management and leadership, founder of the Alisa Management Laboratory of the UAB, ISM University of Management and Economics, Head of the Leadership Program
Comment posted on “Leader’s Dilemma” news radio show
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