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A. Matulaitė shared her divorce history on her social media account. The woman did not hide that this period was very difficult for her, she survived not only emotionally, but also physically.
“It just came to our attention then. An unexpected, traumatic and one-sided decision, like Remigijus Šimašius himself.
and writes. I went through the entire fall without seeing the fall. When I was left alone, the whole world suddenly collapsed. For a while, no one seemed real: a table, my clothes, a chair … I felt slandered and abandoned with pain. I tried to stay in it. Keep your heart beating, breaking your heart.
The meat was very bad. The sympathetic nervous system did not shut down in any way, which meant a constant taste of metal in the mouth, muscle tremors, crazy weight loss. There was a time when it weighed as much as twelve. It looked like he had a fatal disease. It was a disease. A disease of love whose response has just ceased. And yet I worked and tried to keep the children, the dog, and the house alone. One of the scariest experiences was waking up in the middle of the night to find yourself sitting and crying … Have you experienced this? I finally started to get out of it. Thanks to friends, family, time … little by little I began to believe that I could survive this too. Somehow.
No, divorce is never good for the children in this case. Children respond to divorce more neutrally or even favorably only when they see that their parents have had a bad time in marriage. Violent. Tortured In our case, there was nothing like it. By the time Remigijus admitted that he lacked joy and an unexpected departure from the house to “think”, the children had heard that their mother was very dear, had no mercy for more than a minute together, carried flowers, drank coffee together and planned trips . So the whole world fell apart for the children as they knew it until now.
And yet, if you ask me: “Did Remigius and I manage to start a successful family?” Now that I’ve at least been through the initial separation anxiety circles, I can say yes. Really so. We had a wonderful family. Happy family. It seemed to be a very open-speaking family. A union of two very strong people who support each other. For which I am very grateful to Remigijus. Only, unfortunately, this family of ours didn’t last forever, which at least I really expected. “If you had known there would be a lack of openness at the end, wouldn’t you have created this marriage?” Maybe I wouldn’t have, because in the end, this final pain was really too much for me. Suddenly I felt like I was burying the closest person, our house was surrounded by fire and someone else was trying to steal future dreams. But on the other hand, maybe it’s good that he can’t know that ending from the beginning in any way.
And yet I want to wish you certainty. Diversity of feelings. All feeling palettes. Don’t take a sample from us. Invest in your relationship. Abu. Constantly. Build relationships together. Be responsible. Speak very, very openly and constantly. I want to understand that relationships are a constant dance. That it is impossible to exhaust the relationship of a loved one … If we really love with all our heart, a relationship is possible only in one direction: in the direction of greater openness and intimacy ”, shared A. Matulaitė a sensitive letter.
On Tuesday evening, R. Šimašius announced the big changes in his life on Facebook. He claimed to have made a difficult decision to share to make room for interpretations and rumors.
“After sixteen years of living together, eleven of them in marriage, I decided to divorce. The decision is far from being impulsive or reckless, on the contrary, strongly felt, reconsidered, measured many times, even during those few months when I live alone.
Unfortunately, there is usually no simple one-sentence answer to life’s most important questions, and attempts to formulate it seem too lax. In any case, I accept the divorce and the fact that I have to take this step as my defeat, which has only to be recognized, painful as it may be, ”admitted the mayor of Vilnius.
15 minutes remember that for R. Šimašis the marriage with A. Matulaitė is the second, the couple is raising two daughters and a son.
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