On Valentine’s Day, Jordan turns 10 without alcohol: he decided to do it after Elegy’s fateful words, sitting quietly on the bed.

“Today everyone will go crazy looking for flowers for the heart. And I would like to give myself a flower for … Ten! You listen? Ten!

So many years of love for yourself come together this weekend. I’m not just talking about love for myself here, I don’t want to be complacent.

The decision I made ten years ago was the fairest. Another equally correct was to marry Elijah.

But these two things are related, because if it weren’t for Elegy, I wouldn’t have lost the alcohol. But I did it ten years ago. I had to do it because my man once sat quietly on the edge of the bed and said, “For all my infinite love for you, I can’t take it anymore.”

What do you want to do in those moments? Say, well, and drive! Very here for me … But I knew very well that if my iron patience Elegy came out, it was not because he wanted to raise me. And because, well, it’s actually a “horn.”

Deciding to stop drinking, that is, to give up alcohol completely, only I could do it. You can hold the hand of another strong person, but you must decide for yourself.

You understand the word “need” subconsciously, but if you want, you will find a million reasons “not yet”. Well, not today, you what, you have a conscience, I’m having such a bad time, I’m bad, I’m sad, I’m on stage, I’m nervous, I’m that, I’m so. ..

But I’ll tell you from my ten years of experience: every day that can be earned by giving up drinking is worth daring. Because there is only one time under our control: now!

We will not change yesterday what will happen tomorrow, we do not know. And today we can make a point in our “witchcraft”.

So, if you see that life is going to hell, that you can’t drink anything, but like a stubborn donkey, that’s not all: drink, drink and you still know where to get it, listen to me: the whole world is not against you , you can radically change everything that is not satisfactory. But there will be nothing if there is no determination to take the first step. Then you will need a second, a third, you will also need to climb a ladder to get out of that gutter and hang your nails on the wall, but you see: it will come out of the well. If you really want to, get out.

If you love yourself, do it!

If you still don’t love, fall in love.

It’s just stupid not to live your life in a way that you like.

And I like these ten years a thousand times more. It’s a holiday! Love and be loved, ”says Jordan.

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