Reda Bžeskienė, celebrating his 39th birthday: “Everything is coming, the wounds are healing”

Reda, khappy mood are you on your birthday?

The situation is as it is, thank God I am healthy for both myself and my daughters. As much as possible, of course, this period I do not emphasize. Until schools and kindergartens close, we live our daily lives. Otherwise it would not be easy for me to be alone with two children. We move at the same pace, we just don’t have any more circles and everything else is stable enough. The mood is not bad for a birthday party, perhaps a little unfortunate that this year the holiday is “family” for reasons that everyone understands. I will meet at home, with some friends, I will not organize special “fireworks”.

Do you count candles on the cake during birthdays?

I think the most important thing is how a person feels. I’m sure my best year is yet to come. I have an inner style jog after forty years everything will turn out even better than now. I never wanted time to go back. All the passing years bring experience and a variety of beautiful things, new friendships. It’s true that there are inevitably losses, but that’s life. After all, the heart doesn’t age, so it doesn’t matter how old you are.

How did you manage to “endure” the first quarantine, when all educational institutions were closed?

At that time, I was only working in Barcelona; as soon as I managed to return on one of the last trips, I had to isolate myself. The girls were with their father and grandmother in Kaunas, they engaged in self-education there, all kinds of drawings and the like. And then we probably went through quarantine like everyone else: at home, with weird, short walks outside. Somehow all ofwe grab. You just have to accept that moment. My daughters really like going to school and kindergarten; they have their friends there, their lives, he likes to socialize incessantly, so after the first quarantine eager to get back to his normal life. It definitely gets boring for kids squirming at home, it is a pity that we are not only imprisoned, but that they are not free to enjoy their childhood.

What helps you the most with the girls? After all, it happens that adult matters arise, babies need to be cared for.

For real – I’m trying to raise girls herself. Sure, parents help when needed, but I try not to overload them too additional In some cases, I call a babysitter for help. I also have a good friend who lives nearby, so if she is very needy, sometimes she goes out too.

Dad in girls life involved?

We have established communication procedures, under which parents spend a few weekends a month with their children. Of course, this is sometimes not enough for girls to build a strong bond, but I don’t want to expand. There are many unpleasant tests in progress divorce processes that take a long time. There is no way you would like it to be. Most dads of girls communicate when it suits them. Bet I I am in favor of that the spend as much time as possible with your daughters. I think children should be a priority. This subject is sensitive and painful for me, I am looking forward to the end of the tests.

Is it easy to make love again after those experiences?

Everything arrives on time, the wounds heal. First of all, I love myself. I believe in love, but currently I share it with my daughters and loved ones. M manthe turn is not a game of crosses to zeros or some kind of proof, it’s just the strongest feeling. If another man approached, he should not only love me, but above all my children. I think that’s the case in life, if you love a person with children, you love them too.

You used to be happy to decide to come back from Lithuania to live in Tenerife. Did you never regret that decision?

Not quite. Going back to Lithuania was the best decision I have made in the last ten years. This is my land, I want to be here and it is very good for me here. Sure, there are many different nuances and things everywhere, but it all depends on us. I would not want to emigrate anywhere without money. Here is my family, my home, my own language. Perhaps with the year that I become a growing patriot, I don’t know. I love both Lithuanian nature and weather. Tenerife was not as good for me as it was for my homeland.

Many people undertook various activities during their quarantine, such as sewing.s, distance education and the like. What new did you do?

Yes, I created my own clothing brand. Everything was born quite spontaneously, I just wanted sew some sweaters for you and everything quite organically, naturally it became a more serious activity: creating clothes for children and young people, and for those who like smart casual clothes. You don’t have to look at everything too complicated, the best things are simple. Clothing create a mood. Darau orP, kaip I am beautiful and what I would like to wear. After all, there is no bad weather for sweaters, they are possible use Y in summer Y in winter and are worn by everyone, children, teenagers and adults alike. Also, spending most of your time at home, in the middle of a pandemic, you don’t want to be sitting “messed up” or in your pajamas all the time. You can pamper yourself with comfortable and beautiful clothes.

Your own physical stores kol kas I do not have, I trade on social networks. I had thoughts to configure it – I had already received the offer, but I abstained – perhaps the sixth internal feeling did not allow it, because I do not know what the future will be. Of course, I don’t rule out the possibility ever do that. So far, I call this activity a “mini-entrepreneur.” Be a, dmy most important duties are my mother, and all other activities are secondary until now.

What would you wish for your future?

Peace, stability and health. I no longer have unrealistic dreams, I am sure I will not become an astronaut. (smile).