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The Dying with Dignity bill will allow terminally ill people to make “a choice” about how to live their last days and have “a more dignified death,” said a man with terminal cancer.
Brian Lynch of Gort, Co Galway, who was diagnosed with inoperable stomach cancer in late 2018, says passing the bill, which seeks to legalize assisted suicide, would allow people to regain control of their lives from a disease that it can dictate your every move. .
“When cancer comes to your door, you don’t have a choice to let it in,” the 53-year-old said. “We have to live with that cancer. But we should have the option to die with dignity. “
The private members bill, introduced by Solidaridad-Gente ahead of TD Gino Kenny’s earnings was debated in the Dáil on Thursday and will see its first vote next week. However, the Government has decided to propose an amendment that would stop the legislative process for a year to allow a special committee of the Oireachtas to examine the issue.
Lynch says the proposed legislation is not about giving “final instructions” on how to die, but rather it would offer terminally ill people an alternative to unnecessary suffering.
At the end of the day, it is the person with cancer who has to live with cancer. It should be that person’s choice
He had worked as a freelance house painter for two decades when he started experiencing heartburn in late 2018. He took Gaviscon for three weeks and made a doctor’s appointment when symptoms did not improve. A few weeks later, he was diagnosed with inoperable stage three stomach cancer. He underwent chemotherapy between January and September 2019 and after a six-month break from treatment, his cancer returned. He recently completed another 12 rounds of chemotherapy.
“This year’s chemotherapy is exactly the same as last year, but it takes a higher toll on my body. My bone marrow is now affected. I used to be able to walk, but now I’m tired all the time. If my cancer returns within the next three months, I am not as strong as I was last year. The more treatment I receive, the weaker I get. I know myself that I can’t keep getting chemotherapy forever.
“Twice last year I asked my oncologist about surgery and twice I got the same answer, that my cancer is inoperable. I no longer ask. “
Lynch says she initially concealed the severity of her condition from her three children who are in high school and college. However, with the family at home during the lockdown when he restarted chemotherapy last March, there was no point in hiding the full story.
“At first I told them white lies, I used to hide things about the lymph nodes. If they went online, they would read bad things. But it no longer makes sense to hide it. Thanks to Covid, my children have seen everything. “
Having contracted an infection while brushing his teeth last year, Lynch is well aware of the dangers of contracting Covid-19 in his condition. “I will end up at A&E and may not come back.”
He says he treats his cancer “like a bad flu” but does not hide the truth. “The thing about cancer is that you can’t hide from it. If you are going to die, you are going to die.
Lynch has discussed the Die with Dignity bill with her family and recently reached out to Vicky Phelan and other advocates for the legislation to offer her support.
He disagrees with the argument that if the bill passes, people risk being forced to make the choice to live or die. “At the end of the day, it is the person with cancer who has to live with cancer. It should be that person’s choice. “
If you lost the ability to walk and were in bed every day, you’d want that option, he adds. “The bill is there to give people a more dignified ending.”
Before her diagnosis, Lynch said she had no free time. “I was a total slave to my job. Cancer totally changed me, I have a different perspective on life. Money means nothing to me now because I can’t get my health back. Every day I get up and move without pain is a good day. “
“I appreciate more things now like going for a cup of tea with someone. My wife takes me to Flaggy Shore three times a week. Four years ago I wouldn’t have time for that. It took cancer to get me to Flaggy Shore. “
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