After Thanksgiving, Kabe Belo became mental, he posted on Instagram about how his relationship with Mendis would grow. “I’ve learned a lot about my love for this guy,” he captioned an Instagram photo of the couple kissing. “It’s not just the happy moments you see in pictures and videos – when you’re in a relationship with someone it feels like it’s the mirror that reflects itself in front of you – I constantly face my fears, my worries, my Insecurity, my way of thinking, my beliefs about life and myself. It’s not as simple as it sometimes appears in the pictures. Sometimes, it’s messy and uncomfortable and ugly lil. But there is no such thing as a pull, the force that is love, to be light in the darkness – the gravitational pull that gives you the unceasing power to be braver, wiser and better than you were yesterday. “
“It is so natural for us to love, even if our minds sometimes try to save us from it, but our nature as human beings is to love. And being in love means liking that person over and over again, going through messy stuff. “And that way is more real than beauty and raw and perfection,” she concluded. “I am all for social media to be weak because I think only the elegance and wholeness of life is shown here; And it can make all of us feel extra lonely and weird! So raise your glass towards the awkwardness and strangeness of being human and miraculous. And simplicity. And instinct. And the power of humility is love. ”
