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The other side of the story with 8-year-old Angie: The girl’s mother talks about systematic physical and mental abuse, from which she and her daughter managed to break free.
Social services confirm that the girl is traumatized
The father’s threats to little Angie
The moving and sad story of a father who lost track of his 8-year-old daughter was told by 24 Chasa on September 22. Nikolay Milovanov, Angelina’s father, sought publicity for the family saga between him and Tsveta Kalaydzhieva, with whom they lived as a family for 9 years. And he told how he raised the boy who disappeared after a weekend with his mother, since then he cannot even listen to him on the phone. He filed complaints with the police, but to no avail.
Much more complicated and traumatic; unfortunately, especially for the girl in the center, it turned out to be this family drama. It is especially painful for mother Tsveta, who in turn called “24 hours” to explain how things are.
3 years ago Nikolai suffered
incident fragments,
who left it
in a coma for 45 days
In a drunken state, he lay down on a cord that had been bitten by a pet and undressed it, he said. Then your ex is by your side. He had to get a second job to cover all expenses.
“I was the person who took him out of the hospital because the only living relative he has is his brother and he doesn’t want to look at him. I struggled to get him back on his feet, I couldn’t walk, I couldn’t speak, I couldn’t eat, ”explains Tsveta.
She studied nursing, but at that point she decided to take a year off and take care of Nikolai. She started a second job at her sister Raya Kavaldzhieva’s restaurant. Little Angie was cared for by Tsveta’s mother and also by her aunt. It happened that Tsveta took her to work with him so that they would not part.
Nikolay Milovanov and Tsveta Kalaydzhieva ended their relationship in the summer of 2019. In June, she finally moved out of the family home. The new man at his side, Lachezar, believes it was an evacuation. After the domestic incident, Nikolai, who, according to Tsveta’s stories, had already overdosed on alcohol, was already preparing a cocktail with the drugs he was taking for the coma and epilepsy he had developed. It happened that he fought with Tsveta and in front of his daughter Angelina, then only six years old, the woman recalls with horror.
“Today we are paying the bill because psychologists are working frantically for this child,” Lachezar said.
Already in March, Angelina began to fall into hysteria and refused to go with her father.
She prayed to
your mother not her
she cried and cried
Tsveta categorically refutes the father’s allegations that she did not inform him that his daughter will stay with her after the imposition of the state of emergency in March this year.
“The boy gradually began to lose desire for any contact with him.” Just by mentioning that he has to go to his father, she is horrified, “Angie’s mother said.
Tsveta met Nikolai at her apartment before March 15. At the time, she still didn’t know what was happening to her daughter. From the gate, Tsveta saw the hostile situation almost a year after she left their common home.
“Total destruction. You enter a house that was once a home. And now, like the refuge of a homeless man, without exaggeration,” describes what Tsveta found.
Since living in the town of Velchovo, little Angie has been to a psychologist. Her mother contacted
center for
assistance
to social
services in Troyan,
to work
with the boy
For a long time, the little girl did not even admit to the harassment she had suffered. He woke up from the dream screaming and crying.
Before “24 hours” the social services confirmed that they are working with the boy and that he did not want to see his father.
The girl was seriously injured, experts explained.
“The boy was about to break his psyche, but they managed to bring him back. We had to give her time to reveal how she feels, so the psychologists who have been working with Angie for several months have a lot of credit, ”explains Lachezar.
Angelina told her mother and her new husband that her father had hit her when she was drinking. The girl secretly looked at photos of Tsveta on her phone and when Nikolai found out, he slapped her. The boy also admitted that he often
it was closed
in the apartment
in the residential complex “Druzhba”.
“He told me that he was locked up between 7 and 8 hours and when he made himself a sandwich or a princess to eat, his father, drunk from the door, would eat everything in front of him. He woke her up late at night when he got home, “Lachezar says.
The professors of the 68th University of Sofia “Acad. Nikola Obreshkov ”, in which the girl started first grade, complained to her mother that she fell asleep in class and could not concentrate.
Lachezar Petrov claims that there is no truth to Nikolai’s accusations that he was threatened by him. There were threats, but from the father to his daughter, he sent her text messages in which he promised that she
Will roar with
Tears of blood “,
because it is
betrayed
He also tells her that she is no longer his daughter and does not bear his last name.
“I defended his position a lot, we even fought with Tsveta about it. I once picked up the phone and asked him to do something about this child. My most regret is that Angie could not find the strength in her son’s heart to open it one more time and forgive his father ”, says the man with Tsveta sadly.
He added that he also supported Angie in keeping in touch with her father. At first they insisted that their daughter answer her phone, she spoke with Nikolai herself. You now describe this as a big mistake on your part. To this day, the boy receives many messages from his father both at night and during the day. The mother even describes it as telephone terrorism.
Lachezar and Tsveta ask why Milovanov does not seek his rights legally, but instead uses the media to make noise. Both believe that the ostentation that Nikolai wants creates a “social storm”.
Angie’s mother says Nikolai blocked her SIM card, which was in her name, to make it appear to the police that she wasn’t picking it up. Lachezar claims that Nikolay Milovanov is an old acquaintance of his drunken behavior and his addiction to gambling for the officers of the 8th Regional Police Department in the residential area of Druzhba. That is why they both believe that they should not be given space to express themselves.
“One madman cannot drive us all mad,” said the man.
It so happened that while Tsveta was reading Nikolai’s story in “24 Chasa”, the boy knew his father and himself from the photos. “Isn’t it mom, isn’t it dad?” She exclaimed.
“She is already reading and, unfortunately, this article totally cut her off,” Tsveta and Lachezar explain.
They share their story, first, to refute Nicolás, and second, because according to Lachezar
there are many women
in position
in colors
Those who prefer to put their fists to their faces just to stay with their children.
“They live in a commitment without realizing one thing: the worst thing is to compromise with the abuser and, therefore, paralyze their generation,” he said.
Angie found it difficult to accept the new father figure in her life. Lachezar says he has no reason to force things. “There is nothing purer than the conscience of a child. If he accepts me, he accepts me, I am willing to present the necessary conditions in which he will develop,” he promises.
With the introduction of the state of emergency, Lachezar offered Tsveta to move with Angelina to the town of Velchovo. The girl’s father Nikolay Milovanov was informed about his decision in due time and did not express any objection, the two are categorical.
At that time, Angie’s mother was already pregnant with her first child along with her new husband. They now have a 4 month old son. In Velchovo they live in a two-story house with a large patio, where they gather their family of six. Lachezar has two children from a previous relationship, a 10-year-old daughter and a 9-year-old son. The new school year for Angelina and Lachezar’s oldest son started at the same school in Troyan.
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