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Miglena Kakanasheva, as is the real name of the designer, chose to share the so-called screenshots of her communication with Karbowski. He himself has not yet commented on the accusations, but the persistence and desire with which he approaches his younger colleague leaves a mark on the communication applied between the two. “I wonder how many more men around you are waiting, don’t answer me :))” “If sex were so selective for you, would you sleep with car thieves?” , “Obviously, only one likes the other”, etc.
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We publish the last post of the designer without editorial intervention:
“Many girls have written to tell me how they have also received sexual ultimatums at work or in other forms of power addiction. They all say ‘and what can we do’, ‘who will believe us’, ‘nonsense’. . The fact is that in Bulgaria this problem is not talked about and there are no well-known working methods to tackle it. For this reason, I will use my popularity to try to promote the #metoo movement in Bulgaria. I wrote to the international organization and I will do my best to build a working method to address the problem in our country. For now, I am creating the Instagram page @metoobulgaria and I invite everyone who has had a similar problem to share. Also, I am looking for an administrator for the page. Someone who is personally involved in the cause and wants to fight for it. Write me on the profile of @metoobulgaria.
Now I will briefly share my story with Karbowski to show how complicated things can be sometimes and to give an example that it is not a shame to talk. There is seldom evidence in the problem of sexual extortion, because everything usually happens in personal conversations. Here, however, the fact that he is always online turned out to be a positive. Without realizing it, I wrote and saved many things. I’m posting some text messages directly related to the topic of sexual ultimatums. The important thing here is not that Karbowski had wishes for me. This would have been normal if I had not received an ultimatum on sex work from them. There is sex, there is transmission. No sex, no transmission.
The history:
I attended Mihaela Todorova’s birthday. Karbowski was there too. He started encouraging me to be his guest on the show. I said that I no longer wanted to talk about my personal dramas and that the only way to participate was to do a group show of “La Máscara” and “Segundo Plan”. He agreed and we did a “rich-poor” social experiment. The show made it to the top ten and Martin talked about having a column with him. He said he wanted to focus on political journalism and I wanted to take his place. I sympathized with him endlessly and admired him like an idol, and it was a golden opportunity for me to learn from him and inherit from him.
Not long after, however, he started complimenting and teasing me. I thought: these men behave like this, imagine. Then there were direct invitations. And somehow he was still twisting things so we could meet in person and talk at work, and he was still drinking and talking about sex. I started to feel bad and to try to differentiate things. In my typical style, with long and huge explanations, I told him that this was not the way to work and that relationships should not happen that way. Over time, it all turned into ultimatums and outright demands. He continued to persuade me and convince me that this was normal by telling me how everyone before me had done it.
For me, it was a choice of values: how to talk about morality on television when I got there immorally. I started to hate meetings. He wanted them to stay with them, his house was used as an office. In our last meeting there were other women, they drank, played and danced, we are talking about 6 to 7 in the afternoon. I was throwing up. He told me you were very late and they invited each other. I couldn’t stand it and in the next press I told him some things that I thought about him. He is ambitious and we fight. One of the drunk women there started insulting me and telling me to leave. I cried and left. It turned out that I forgot my wallet. The SOT had to come because they were drunk and locked up. That was it, then I was silent. I said to myself: as long as the past is gone, don’t create dramas. Then I found out about other cases and decided to share them. ”
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