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I don’t let people say that Ho Van Cuong is “the shadow of Phi Nhung.”
– Cuong changed too much. I also have 7 or 8 children the size of Cuong who are in a phase of change. Fortunately, the children are in the temple so the change is not the same as that of ordinary people. And Cuong changed because he was a singer, a little stubborn. I tend to worry until now, so I teach my children the US way. How do I make my children when they turn 18 be a good person, when they are born they will be informed.
* How do you accept conflicting opinions when you share Ho Van Cuong’s story?
– I do not mind. Cuong is a member of my family, whatever happens, as long as my son is good. That’s just between me and Cuong. I don’t care who tells me, cursing me for being a witch is fine. I ignored it, as long as the boy had to change, he had to do it before he could change it.
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* Do you think Ho Van Cuong is too young when under public pressure?
* Have you talked to Cuong’s biological parents before?
* What are your directions for Cuong’s life in the near future?
* When Cuong was 18 years old and working independently, did you have any preparation for your son to be better?
– I just don’t have money, the rest I will teach my children what to do when they are born. I have to meet someone else, be sociable … Cuong is an autistic age and I don’t have time to teach. I said that when my son is 18 years old and independent, in this moment Mom will show me what he has been through. Later, you will be independent and you will know everything. I live the American way, 18 years old is a child with rights, I want Cuong to live, study, work. That is the story of Cuong, you will have your own life and this is how you become human. And all day you stay with your mother like when you were a child, you will not be able to.
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* Cuong shared about a closed time, difficult to trust his mother. Do you know this?
– I don’t grow well at all times. When I was a child, my mother and I talked. Actually, that time I “hit” my son hard and for a reason. The way each mother teaches her children is different. Whoever curses, I don’t care. I just want my son to be good, but anyone says what I do. It was a lesson for Cuong. At that time, I was scared when I saw that Cuong was not talking to anyone in the house, when he came back from school, he was alone in his room. Only parents can understand these things. I don’t know if he’s a good or bad boy, I don’t know if he goes to the bedroom to watch a movie or to study. I just want my son to go out somewhere, let me know, if I take pictures with my friends, let me see. I just want to be friends with Cuong, but my son doesn’t understand. I don’t want my kids to keep their phones, read fan messages, and live online. I respect Cuong’s fans, but I’m afraid that sometimes people will admire him too much. I can’t say, Cuong doesn’t usually trust his mother and his head isn’t normal either. I do not want that.
* Do you have any ideas that would allow Cuong to come to America with him in the future?
– That’s Cuong’s story. Of course, I would like children to come to America, but I have great respect for them. I don’t know if Cuong likes it or not, but if he likes it, I’ll create the conditions for him to leave. Because studying that subject, going to college well, going to the United States will be good for Cuong. As for the difficulties, I think it is important to have money to pay my children. I live with me, what is my job, if I can take care of him or not, the party will check everything and then let him go. I have already calculated all this, the only important thing is in Cuong.
* Cuong is pressured to be known as “Phi Nhung’s adopted son”. Do you have any direction for the baby to come out of this?
– How can I escape? Cuong has to accept that, but there is nothing to be ashamed of. If it weren’t for Phi Nhung, how would Cuong be today? Now that Cuong wants to escape, he must study well and come to work. But it was a beautiful past, not a bad past, so Cuong don’t think about it. I also don’t let people say that Cuong is “Phi Nhung’s shadow.” I will let my son take a new path. Cuong wanted to get rid of that shadow, so he should go to school, graduate, and go to work. the audience to forget, how can they forget.
But now that Cuong is going to sing, I still call the singer Ho Van Cuong, not an adopted child. There are times when I don’t remember the MC talking often, but when I remember I will tell the MC. I am very open. I sing folk music but I live in a foreign country, so I have a lot of respect for the individuality of others.
Now that I’m getting married, my kids don’t like it
How does your biological daughter (Wendy) live in the United States?
– When Wendy was with Cuong, she was also very tired. But children in America should also have something close and intimate. She is also 6 months in the camp, then she knows and completely different. The child who learns to breastfeed is the one who chooses and takes care of himself. Meanwhile, Cuong is a bit difficult to teach and approach when he is this age and has activities in show business. So I have to read psychology books to talk to Cuong. I have to be very able to speak mentally. Because Cuong is a member of the public, yelling is not the way. I was under a lot of pressure with Cuong. In the house, no one said Cuong except me. Seeing that, it’s not soft, it’s so fierce.
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Sometimes he would tell her to teach him a little, but Cuong’s parents had to go to work. That’s why I had to teach Cuong from the beginning. In general, mother and daughter are very difficult. When Cuong went to school in Ho Chi Minh City, he was also under pressure. My newcomer just got a name, but he has “wet feet” at school, so sometimes I feel sad and I want to help my son, but how can I? I have to let my son look at me so I can continue to worry about studying. It took Cuong just a year to get rid of his autism. I have been singing for 30 years, I have witnessed how people teach their children so I have a lot of experience. When I write like this, I have to think too much, because it takes away the interest of the audience about 80%, but I don’t need to know, I just need to know between Cuong and me. As long as my son grows into a good and obedient boy. Now that the child has passed it, he knows what to do for himself, I don’t need to say anything more.
* At this age, what is happiness for Phi Nhung? Are you thinking of taking another step?
– Now I am very happy because I have children. Now that I’m getting married, my kids don’t like it. Heaven can’t give me enough I feel like I have a good biological son and the children I take care of are good too. So I feel like she’s already happy. I once said that I did not intend to marry, until now this opinion remains. If I get married, I will get married early, but what should I do now? I am not afraid of marriage because I know someone who loves me. I have no bad thoughts about boys, I think they are beautiful.
* With your popularity and prominence, someone will follow. How smart will you refuse?
– I’ll treat that person like my brother. I used to joke like a little sister. But I hardly ever go out so no one follows me.
– I feel normal. When I go on stage, I am happy to make the audience happy. However, the old quiet times will be less. When Manh Quynh is married, we don’t hesitate to partner. Because his wife is my friend. In general, what I do not feel sorry for everyone is that I am not afraid. I’ve never seen anything wrong with anyone. I am very carefree. Twenty years of duet singing together, we have many moments of conflict and anger. I am like a boy and Manh Quynh is like a girl. I don’t care how I fight on stage, but when I get on stage, I have to follow Quynh. The audience loves us like this.
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