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The method of anti-education discipline.
Like newspaper Youth Reflected, on November 30, a 10th-grade student from Vinh Xuong High School (Tan Chau City, An Giang) left a suicide note and took suicide pills at school, to show that she did not violate the order. to be discarded by the school.
According to the mother of the student taking suicide pills, this student suffered frustration because the school handled her in violation of the school rules. The reason stems from the fact that girls do not participate in tutorials organized by the school. At the same time, the math teacher in class “noticed” that she was wearing a thin ao dai, revealed “underwear” and had words that attracted the attention of many classmates, making her feel ashamed. Although, the school has no regulations or guidelines for wearing ao dai specifically for girls to follow.
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According to Notice on Student Violation of High School Regulations for 2020-2021 School Year, signed by Mr. Nguyen Viet Lob, Principal of Vinh Xuong High School, signed on November 27, NTNY ( class 10A4) made a mistake: Reflect false; Causing a mistake in school and family relationships; Adversely affect the honor and reputation of teachers; Use your mobile phone to record the teacher during class. The school of medical treatment must write reviews and implement detention daily within 2 weeks of December 1-12.
In the decision, the principal of Vinh Xuong High School also asked the student to be at the school from 6:30 a.m. to 6:50 a.m. Monday to Saturday so that the school’s teachers alternately teach the code of conduct. . work ethics and participation in school. |
After the incident about the student was reported Youth published, many readers have expressed frustration with the disciplined management of the school.
The reader, named Viet Pham, commented, “The principal of Vinh Xuong High School also asked Student Y to be at the school from 6:30 am to 6:50 pm Monday to Saturday. Take turns teaching ethical codes of conduct and work participation in schools. This is the anti-educational method ”.
The student is being treated in the hospital, now her health is stable |
Readers Thanh Binh expressed: “I am also a teacher. I don’t know what Mr. Y. did, but the school shouldn’t handle it like this anyway. Education is to motivate, Mrs. Y. is still young, please do not treat children like that ”.
Having a son who is also in high school, reading this incident, Ms. Nguyen Thi Ngoc Huong (who lives at 96 Nguyen Thong Alley, District 3, Ho Chi Minh City) shared many concerns: “I read that sad , why? the school makes decisions that are too rigid and uneducated. The age of children is a new era, many uncontrollable thoughts and actions. If kids have something at school, they can’t go home and talk to their parents and behave resentfully like a suicide drug, then they know what to do. Really worried and painful. “
With the same view, Mr. Nguyen Trong Nhan (architect, living in Go Vap district, Ho Chi Minh City) expressed with frustration: “The educational environment has pushed the children down the same path, really sad. . From this story, we must also ask ourselves many questions about how to educate and discipline the child so that these sad cases do not happen.
Discipline, not punishment
Acknowledging this incident, Cambridge Khai Minh System Director Dr. Nguyen Hoang Dung candidly stated: “I completely disagree with the disciplinary record of this school board. Education, please don’t push the kids to the end. I do not reject discipline, but discipline, not punishment. Schools are not judges, education is not courts, education is about saving people, not eliminating ”.
Psychologist Dr. Nguyen Hoang Dung said please don’t push them to the end. |
Dr. Hoang Dung analyzes from the point of view that psychology, they are in adolescence, their ego is very high. The school needs to understand this in order to capture the individuality of each student and have appropriate management and discipline, not all children are like each child.
“Discipline in education is the discipline of behavior, not the person, correcting and speaking up for that behavior, not condemning it for that person. Because the age of children is tolerant, in the perfection stage, if we apply inappropriate discipline, it is easy to overthrow a person, ”said Dr. Dung.
According to Mr. Dung, in adolescence, when children are hurt, the brand will follow them throughout their lives. And if he is not intelligent, then that same behavior will become a tool to compensate in the future for the child, the child will behave like others like that, this is very dangerous. hurt.
Hospital Treatment Certificate for NTNY Students Who Committed Suicide with Salbutamol |
Furthermore, Mr. Dung also said that if the discipline is not reasonable, it will easily turn them into people of inferiority and inferiority in the future. They will have no direction, goals, and the will to ascend.
“My point of view is to have discipline but the discipline to express love. As in the family, when the father hits and the mother rubs, the disciplinary committee must have two equal forces, so that the students are punished but still receive love, not alone. In the case of a student who took the suicide drug just now, it is clear that she is alone. At their age, loneliness becomes a catalyst to amplify a more intense reaction, ”emphasized Dr. Dung.
In this case, if you consider deeply, Dr. Dung said that the student who committed suicide is being subjected to violence and violence in the same school that she attends. And that is psychological violence. So in this case, Dr. Dung advised the family to trust an intermediary voice.
“So there should be a middle channel in the middle to hear the voices of the children, hear the voices of the school. In the future to prevent similar stories from happening, ”Dr. Dung sent.
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