2-year-old baby attacked by his father: choosing to judge by law or reconciliation, altruism?

Commenting on the matter from a legal perspective, lawyer Quach Thanh Luc (Hanoi Bar Association) said that the two parties should proactively meet, apologize, accept apologies, mediate with each other. It is the form of reconciliation between them that also teaches children about altruism, about the right decisions, just when resolving disputes. The child has a valuable lifelong lesson that resolving disputes through violence is not the right choice.

Local authorities can also apply article 27 of Decree 144/2013 / ND-CP on the sanction of administrative offenses in matters of protection, social aid and protection and care of children: A fine of 5 to 10 million will be imposed. dong for acts of physical abuse that cause harm to children’s health.

According to psychologists, pediatricians of 2 children do not have many words and expressions mainly through actions. Psychological development is very instinctive, the baby has not been able to control her emotions, so it is easy to explode by screaming, biting or kicking others. This is the psychological manifestation that most children will experience at this stage.

The resolution of the father in the clip shows the lack of calm, the lack of basic knowledge about child psychology. The intentional use of violence by an adult against the instinctive and uncontrollable behavior of a young child is wrong.

I think the fault lies with the reaction, but in rural, remote and isolated areas, the answer is not unique. Many parents do not have the skills and knowledge to choose appropriate behavior when their children are hit, in addition to choosing to hit another child to defend and protect their children.

Being a good parent is a process that adults need time and experience to mature and they will surely make many mistakes. In this case, the adults have lacked psychological understanding, instinctual behavior, and lack of control.

The important thing here is the behavior of the adults towards each other in this case. According to the information, the father of the clip called to apologize, but the father was not captured.

As reported by Dan Tri, on the afternoon of September 30, at the end of school, in the 24-36 month D2 kindergarten class of Trumpkids kindergarten (located at 357 Nhac Son Street, Coc Leu Ward, Lao Cai City, Lao Cai Province)

At that time, two 2-year-olds, PTBA and HCT, were playing and fighting over toys. Baby BA took Baby CT’s hand and brought it to her mouth to bite, but before they had time to bite it was pulled out in time and Baby CT cried.

At that time, CT’s father Hoang Van H. (who resides in Coc Leu neighborhood, Lao Cai city) came to see the crying boy and asked the teachers about the situation.

Seeing that his daughter’s hand has red spots (actually spots after afternoon drawing practice), he immediately grabbed her hair, slapped her and threatened to force her to cross her arms and apologize, in the presence of 3 teachers . After that, this father brought his son CT home. Moments later, BA’s maternal grandfather came to pick her up and the director reported the situation to her family.

“Immediately after the incident, the Department of Education and Training and the People’s Committee of the Coc Leu neighborhood asked the Trumkids kindergarten to report and report the incident; to conduct a visit to the BA child; to coordinate with the relevant agencies to clarify. responsibilities of stakeholders, while asking the school to review and deal with teachers in class D2 “, the representative of the Department of Education and Training of the City. Information from Lao Cai.

Also according to the representative of the Department of Education and Training of the City. Lao Cai, BA’s family has submitted an application to the Coc Leu district police and the city police. Lao Cai about the incident.

Ngoc Han