By having a private home, his wife wants to take her parents to worship

I am the second child in a family of 2 brothers. My brother has been married for a long time and has his own house, so after we got married, my wife and I stayed with my parents.

My parents have a pension and my health is still good, so my grandparents carry and take care of my two children. However, because my mother-in-law was unsuitable, my wife kept urging me to stay away.

I tried many years, partly because the children were young, partly because we had not saved much money. Until the beginning of 2019, my second son was 4 years old, I asked my parents to let me live separately. My parents are not happy but they still give us 500 million to buy a house.

The couple sought a land of 400 million. After that, we built a 2-story house with savings and borrowed money.

When we moved, we were very happy. However, that joy was short-lived recently, because my wife insisted on proposing something unthinkable.

For example, my wife’s family has 2 sisters. My wife is everything. Her parents passed away a long time ago. Two sisters live with grandparents.

When the grandparents died, the house they lived in was left to their uncle. This uncle is in charge of the adoration of his parents and brother-in-law (that is, my in-laws). Every year, on the anniversary of my parents’ death, my grandparents, my wife, and I still bring money home so that my uncle and I reach the anniversary of death. All went well.

However, after the vacation home to visit the grave and burn incense for my parents, my wife returned with a sad face. Later, she told me that she would pick up the incense from her parents and worship it at the couple’s home.

I thought this was a paradox, so I immediately objected. I told him that I had never seen anyone do that before. In the family, the adoration of the parents is of the son.

My wife does not have a child, but her uncle has been doing it for years. Also, the house he lives in is inherently part of my in-laws. If you are there, worship is something to do.

My wife and I have our own house, but my parents give me half the money to buy land to build a house. Now my parents are still alive, we have not returned the parents that I brought my parents to worship, surely my parents will be very angry.

However, I say that my wife disagrees. He argued enough argument, enough tone, gentle yes, irritable yes. She even asked me for a divorce if I disagreed with her.

Now I don’t know what to say and how to let him abandon that thought. I hope everyone gives me advice. I would like to thank

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Readers M.B (Hung Yen)