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In Ankara, the veterinarian Yağmur Denli (33) became dear to ZA, whom she met about a year ago. Yağmur Denli claimed that ZA had been violent against her since last April. Denli filed a complaint with the police after ZA, who said she forgave him for apologizing after each violence, beat him again in late October.
THE DECISION TO SUSPENSION FOR TWO MONTHS HAS BEEN MADE
According to the news in DHA, as of November 5 a 2-month suspension measure was imposed on ZA, as a result of Denli’s complaint, who went to the police with photographs of the attacks on his face and various parts of the body .
“I HAVE SEEN PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL VIOLENCE”
Yağmur Denli explained his experiences as follows: “Unfortunately, due to some disagreements, first the arguments and conflicts began. Then I began to experience both psychological and physical violence. In fact, we ended the relationship when I was subjected to violence. The topic it has always belonged to third parties, as a result of the discussions I was exposed to violence.
“CONTINUE INCREASING THE DOSE”
In reality, there is no tangible reason. However, you don’t need any motive for violence. Violence should not be used for any reason. Then after forgiving and giving him a second chance, his dose increased even more. But despite the end of the relationship, I received some threats. We are currently in legal process and there is a suspension decision, “he said.
“THE TORTURE WAS THE SIZE OF THE SADISTIC”
Denli said she regretted the forgiveness after the first violence: “I was walking around with bruises on my face. It’s not just hitting one or two. The kicks you know were beatings, torture and sadistic. Yes, they left permanent damage.” The moment has passed, but that period was very heavy.
“THERE IS NO SECOND CHANCE IN VIOLENCE”
I wanted to give it a second chance. Because I really believed that you might have good intentions. In fact, the second chance should never have been in such a matter. Because once it does, it definitely increases the continuation. “
“I CHANGED MY ADDRESS, MY PHONE”
Denli claimed that despite the suspension measures, he continued to threaten his ex-lover, so he changed his address and phone number and said: “I hope this issue ends like this. It is not clear when. That is why I changed everything from my address to my phone number.
“THE THINGS I LIVED WAS A VERY HEAVY TRAUMA”
The things I experienced were very strong trauma. I saw that the person in front of me had really serious reactions. Absolutely anything can happen at any time. I have experienced this. I don’t want any woman to keep quiet. In particular, they must seek their rights through legal means. Sometimes they get scared and digest us.
More will come if we ignore these fears. Do not be silent. I want this from women on this topic. “If we accept and forgive violence, we must question why we do it,” he said.