I realized my sexual orientation at 15-16 years old; my wife found out about my sexual orientation after five years



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Övüç, who was a guest on Hakan Bilgin’s program posted on Youtube and told about his private life, said: ‘I was married for seven years, my wife found out about my sexual preference five years later.’

The highlights of Murat Övüç’s narrative are as follows:

“My mother is from Siirt, your father is from Van. I am the youngest of five siblings. I was born in Istanbul, but I did not cut my connection to my hometown.”

“I grew up in a nice family, my father offered us all the possibilities, but he was a bit tight-fisted, he didn’t like spending too much money. He had a lot of money, but he used to say ‘how do I earn?

“I realized my sexual preference when I was 15-16 years old. There is something, but I cannot name it. The family is patriarchal, I cannot explain it to my family, I had an older sister who understood me very well. I was sharing my problems with her.
The time has come, I have to get married. What are we going to say to all the family members, I was 26-27 years old, they looked at me like a girl, I didn’t love him or anything.

“My family was also aware of this situation, but nobody can put this situation on their children … Everyone is waiting because they say ‘Why is Murat getting married?’ People think that ‘he has a fault or something.’

“My husband loved me very much the moment he saw me. I am a funny man. He was six years younger. I was 26 and my wife 20. He fell in love as soon as he saw me. My wife learned my sexual orientation after five years. I did I did my best for the bride to make her happy, but in the end. I said ‘enough.

“Then I explained the situation to my wife. She was very understanding of this situation. A very sane lady, we are still meeting.”

“It was the most difficult moment of my life”

“It was the most difficult period of my life after I got divorced. My father did not accept it. My father took my son, I was left as an outcast. It was then that difficult life began for me. I spent my life in a Floor 1 + 1. There were days when I was very hungry. Now, thank God I have all the possibilities. (Freedom)

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