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The images in which the boy allegedly abused by his father yelled saying “I will jump here instead of going to my father” shook social networks. About the allegations, the boy’s mother, AZ, who is a doctor, spoke with Milliyet. Claiming that his own father abused his 10-year-old son for years, AZ made the following accusations: “When my son was 2 years old, his father’s actions against him disturbed me. His attitude towards girls had also bothered me before. I broke up with him for these behaviors. We have been separated for 9 years. When we got out of court he gave me custody of my son. The court decided that my son will not go with the father until he is 7 years old. However, this man’s decision was overturned in the Ankara Supreme Court. When the decision was broken, my son started going to the father’s pension from the age of 2. However, when he returned from his father, he was very angry and could not explain anything because he was small. There was a constant mood. This continued until the age of 6 ”.
Inappropriate behavior
“My son explained to me what his father did when he was 6 years old. I immediately took my son to the psychiatrist. The doctor said that my son was telling a lot of terrible things. The doctor directed me to the Child Monitoring Center. In those years, I complained to the prosecution because there was no Child Monitoring Center in Kahramanmaraş. I asked that my son be sent to the Institute of Forensic Medicine, but it was not accepted. To prove abuse, I took my son to Istanbul Medical College and they examined him there for 15 days. A report was made that he was abused saying that “the father has misbehaved with the child.” They told me to sue my son so he wouldn’t go alone with the father. I filed a lawsuit, but the prosecutor did not accept the report because I received it myself. They told me: ‘You left without referring, the file was closed’ and they gave me a compensation fine of 35 thousand TL for obtaining a report and now they deduct it from my salary “.
“I also didn’t want to give my son to that man. When the days of the hearing came, I kidnapped my son. In this process, I filed another lawsuit so that my son would not go only to the father. While this case continues, the father applied for custody. As the tests continued, my son started first grade in elementary school and his school counselor said that my son was telling very bad things. He prepared a report based on my son’s stories. My son has been receiving treatment for four years of abuse. The bad thing is that during this time my son was taken by force to that man, and each time he went, the man made more of his battery “.
There are 6 reports of abuse
“I was threatening my son with death, saying, ‘If you tell someone, I’ll kill you. Then I took my son to the Kahramanmaraş Child Monitoring Center. He also reported that he had been abused. I have six reports of abuse of my son. Although I put all of this on the record, custody of the child was turned over to the dominant parent despite all the documents. The reason for giving is that I do not give the child to the father and I do not abuse custody. I’m about to go crazy. I can’t do anything legally, the man has a strong back. “
‘Should not be given to both’
AZ said it shared the process with AK Kahramanmaraş Party MP Habibe Öçal and Istanbul MP Tülay Kaynarca. MP Öçal, speaking with Milliyet, said: “We have liked the situation that AZ has been experiencing for 2.5 years. We were always with AZ and we listened to it for hours. For us, the priority is the best interests of the child. This is our only priority. As a mother and a woman, I can say this; I do not find both sides healthy, my impression is the following. This is about using your personal revenge through the child. The accusations are also very serious and unacceptable. Anne says she has a report and that these reports have also been brought to court. I do not know the level and content of the reports. I am not a medical examiner. However, I think neither side is healthy. I approach sociologically and psychologically and it does not seem correct to give the child to both sides. The child also needs to be rehabilitated very urgently. Especially if there is such a claim and suspicion, it is not true at all. Even if the incident is slander, I don’t think the parent can approach the child properly at this stage. “
