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İrem Zarif (18), who lives in Sancaktepe, Istanbul, fled with her family in May with a complaint of being subjected to violence by Abdullah Zarif (21), to whom she had been married for two and a half years. İrem Zarif, 8 months pregnant, took a breath with her family in Ataşehir, Head of the Office of Domestic Violence and Against Women. İrem Zarif, who complained about her husband and mother-in-law, Emine Zarif, for the crimes of mistreatment, threats and deprivation of liberty, also filed a divorce case against her husband. The young woman, who lives in fear because her husband, whom she decided to exile, constantly calls and threatens her brother, told the police that she was a 3.5-year-old girl who was the victim of violence in the house where she was subjected to violence. The police, who found no traces of assault on the boy’s body, released Emine Zarif and her son Abdullah Zarif after taking their statements for both crimes.
‘They tried to kill the baby’
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İrem Zarif, who will give birth in a month, told Hürriyet her experiences: “At home, we lived with her mother Emine Zarif, her sister Pınar Zarif, whose husband was in prison for murder, her daughter E., 3.5 years, my husband and I. My wife used violence against me from day one and threatened my family and me so that we would not return home. There was a sudden nervousness and it was beginning to throb. I had two children thanks to him. I am now 8 months pregnant. She led me to the stove. She asked me to jump so that the child fell. I have a heart disease. I can’t use antibiotics. She tried to give the boy a can of antibiotics and hit her again when she didn’t drink. His mother would laugh and say ‘Oh shoot’. She made me smoke twice when I was pregnant. I vomited foamy. I no longer understood what she was putting on it. One day, when they beat me, the neighbors called the police because of my screaming. They locked me in the room. My mother in law sent the police saying ‘There is nothing’.
‘BAKE FOR CHOCOLATE’
On May 19, my mother-in-law told me to eat chocolate. She did not want to eat, a fight broke out. She led me to her mother’s room, holding my hair and dragging me across the floor, pregnant. My hair was always in handfuls. I can never forget that scream. But nobody came to listen to the neighbors. He bit my arm had wings. She grabbed a knife around my neck. He cut off my arm. While they beat me, her mother was after the ring they put on me. He was reading me curses. He hit me too. Breaking my hand with his nails, he pulled out my tear ring. His nail trail is still there. My legs and back were purple. My eyes were purple.
‘I RUN FROM HOME’
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Silently I ran away from home. But he was so scared that they would see him. Because my wife would definitely kill me this time. Looking back, I forgot I was pregnant and was fearless. I came to my family. We went to the police station and told them. Her house was raided. Guns and bullets were found. But he was not arrested, of course. My wife is addicted to drugs. She constantly texts my brother and threatens her. The gun is shooting rifle photos. He is always aware of my appointments at the hospital. I can’t go to the doctor properly, out of fear. I pray that I am not like other women who died. I don’t want to harm my family. Stay away from us, now I’m tired. He says I will take the child. He went after the boy he was trying to kill. Will the state give it to you? “
‘I was hungry, they were beating the pattern’
Noting that there is another 3.5-year-old victim at home, İrem Zarif said: “The 3.5-year-old daughter of her sister Pınar Zarif, E., is beaten by my mother, my grandmother and my husband. The boy stuttered in fear. Once he put the boy against the wall and strangled him. His mother does not love the child anyway, but he does not send the child to the father’s side to get money from the state. The grandmother also receives a care allowance. The shopping card for the boy is coming. They don’t even buy a candy bar for the kid. No clothes or toys. If the child says ‘My darling wanted this,’ he says by tapping. If they say ‘I’m hungry’, they beat him. They destroyed 5 digits. I told the police that E. was constantly subjected to violence. “They didn’t say anything in her body and they didn’t do anything.”
