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I think many of you are probably familiar with the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, a world-class bestseller. Written by the late management guru Stephen R. Covey, it discusses 7 things you need to do if you want to be successful.
Last week I read a short article sent by a friend that talks about 7 things not to do. Wanting more success and more life to life is written by Brianna Wiest, a 28-year-old girl who is famous for fireworks in America. He has written many best-selling books. It has a lot to do with emotional intelligence, I find it interesting. I want to tell you.
Wait for everything to be perfect And then do it (waiting for the perfect circumstances) Most successful people do it even though many things are not ready. Those who are unsuccessful do the opposite, waiting there, waiting, waiting, waiting. There are all kinds of excuses that they are not prepared at all.
2. Make the most of the time you focus on. To do things that aren’t useful (spend your peak hours on things that don’t matter to you) in behavioral science and psychology. It has been studied that every human being has the golden hour, the time that is most concentrated and effective.
It is our duty to find out what time is the golden hour. Then use that time to do the most valuable things in your life, like planning for your future. Work that requires concentration, etc., without taking the time to play on Facebook or answer your friends’ line
3. Live up to other people’s expectations (seeing your life only through other people’s eyes) Those around you have different views and expectations of us. If you ask 100 people, you’ll probably get between 30 and 40. People who fail spend their entire lives fulfilling the expectations of others.
Anyone who says what to do, will do it, who says it must be what is trying to be tired. But he found that he still couldn’t meet those expectations. These people are everything. Except for yourself I never believed and followed the dream I had
4. Wait for the right moment, or take it as an auspicious good moment (Believing that timing is everything) The best time to act is now. It is never too early or too late. If you want to be successful in your life, these two words must be removed from the directory. It also means believing that time can help solve life’s problems.
For example, having trouble with co-workers instead of finding ways to hone the ways of working together. Instead, let the time go by doing nothing. Because I believe that in time the situation will improve on its own. That from past statistics and experience. I found that over time. Many problems will not improve. Even worse than before
5. Changing course so often Having clear goals in life is the beginning of success. But many people change their goals every few years, wasting time. The parable is similar to the journey.
If you start with the goal of experiencing the cold weather in Chiang Mai. So I decided to take a trip and drive for a few hours and I changed my mind that I was going to the sea. Then go back to Hua Hin After a while, there seems to be a lot of traffic. So I changed the path, turned his head towards the big horn instead of twisting and turning most of the day, going nowhere, circling in the same place, etc. The lives of many people are also in this condition.
6. Think short-term, just spend the day (short-term thinking) Think further and further. Instead of thinking about what to eat tomorrow. Switch to next year, where do you want to go? In the next 5 years, what would be better? We should have heard that. All successful people are dreamers and reach everyone. I’ve never seen a person dream so close in a few years, what do you want to be? And even one person achieved great success
Life can be determined How far do you want to go? How much do you want to be successful? Think big and 2-3 times more, because even if you can’t get to the moon I was still among the stars
7. Try to avoid doing things that are not good (avoiding your discomfort) People who are not very successful in life often play it safe. Don’t take too many risks He’s not too brave and doesn’t want to get out of his comfort zone (comfort zone).
Successful people do the opposite, they dare to do unknown things. Challenge yourself to try things you never did. They are pigs, they are not afraid of hot water. Hurt, no fear, fear, no hurt Fall and get up fast Remember that when you are away from a comfortable area, it is the learning zone.
Try to practice. For the success that awaits us
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