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It should be a new beginning. Stephanie Gorton (27) was ready for the man of her dreams to leave his old life in Australia behind and emigrate to Scotland. She was already leaving everything behind. Family, friends, home and work. Everything for love.
But then everything turned out differently. Just before getting on the plane, the Scotsman simply let her sit down.
The 27-year-old had met the Scotsman through Tinder when he was traveling in Australia for several weeks. Already in the first meeting there was a great spark between the two. They couldn’t do without each other. So much worse that the two thousand kilometers separated them.
They were in a long distance relationship for a year. During this time they talked about the children they had together and even brainstormed possible names. For Stephanie Gorton it was clear: the matter is serious. And then he decided to emigrate. Dare to the adventure of love. He quit his job, packed his things, sent some things to his new home and bought a plane ticket. Once in Scotland, there is no going back.
Her boyfriend had several affairs
But four weeks before it was supposed to start, the man of her dreams barely responded. And Stephanie Gorton asked. “I always tried to get to him. He even got in touch with his mother, “he told the British newspaper” The Mirror. ” Something was wrong. And she found out that her boyfriend spent a lot of time with a South American woman. Later he found out that he was having various adventures. A punch to the face.
“In retrospect, there were several signs that something was wrong. It wasn’t that it was the perfect relationship, there were also trust issues, but I just loved him, ”said the Australian.
There was a fight and finally a separation
Two weeks before the big flight, the 27-year-old’s phone suddenly rang. At the other end of the bulkhead. The Australian remembers. He said, “Steph, it’s too hard, but it shouldn’t be that hard. If it is difficult now, it will be even more difficult later. You will come and you will have no friends and you will only trust me and I am not in a good financial position at the moment. Let’s take a step back and give it a little more time. “
More time? Stephanie Gorton didn’t understand. Time is up. He had given up his whole life. There was a fight and finally a separation. It had chilled her.
He founded a successful company
The Scottish dream was over. And so he stayed in Australia, returned to his old life. “The worst part was going back to work and all the people I knew I was going to move to Scotland in two weeks.” She was deeply humiliated.
But she didn’t want to let the anguish wipe her out. Stephanie Gorton took courage and turned her life around, without a husband or emigration. He founded a successful startup. The company now has 14 employees. (hmh)
