Victim says masturbation was the last straw in a series of bullying incidents



[ad_1]

SINGAPORE – After a night of bullying, the final straw was when a student at Singapore Management University (SMU) masturbated and ejaculated on her face after immobilizing her with his body, a woman testified in court on Thursday. Tuesday (September 8).

“My face felt very hot. I was embarrassed and frankly I couldn’t move, I was just stuck there, nothing like this has happened so I don’t really know how to think or feel, but I just remembered that my face felt very hot and I felt embarrassed and something like angry, ”he said as he took the stand.

“To be disrespected and degraded in that way, I mean, frankly, sorry for my language, I felt like an idiot,” said the 22-year-old victim, recalling her ordeal on January 8 of last year. , when SMU student Lee Yan Ru allegedly rubbed her genitals while she slept on the floor of a study hall on campus.

Lee, 24, is demanding a trial on a charge of sexually abusing the woman, whom he met through the social media platform Instagram a week or two before the incident.

On the first day of the trial, the court heard how the man had made various unwanted advances towards the woman, including hugging her, touching her breasts and attempting to kiss her, after the couple met around 1 a.m. at SMU for work. in the study room. While the woman said she rejected his advances, she maintained that she did not take further action for fear of offending Lee. She also did not leave because she had no means of transportation, she said.

On the second day of her testimony, the woman described the latest incident as the last straw. After a smoke break, the couple returned to the study room where the woman said she was again forced to reject the man’s advances when he tried to sit on her thighs. The woman said that she stood up so that the man fell to the ground.

Later, Lee lined up three or four chairs and apparently fell asleep lying on them. The woman also decided to take a nap and settled on the ground about 10 feet from Lee. The woman testified that, lying on her back, she covered her eyes with the hood of her jacket and fell asleep after 6:10 a.m.

She woke up with a weight around her rib and chest area to find Lee kneeling over her with his face to hers. She was shocked and “stunned,” she said.

“I also felt something like a rocking motion coming from the defendant and his body, and I felt something near my face, near the right side of my face near my chin,” he said. She suspected that this was Lee’s penis, as there could only be “one thing” sticking out of his legs and he was moving in a way that suggested masturbation.

After processing what was happening, the woman said she looked at the man and said “get off me” sternly, but the man simply said “wait”.

“(I felt) shocked, I felt degraded, not only because of everything that had happened, but because when I told him to get off me, he had the gall to tell me to wait,” she said, adding that she felt powerless. .

Incident trauma

He recalled that at some point before the incident, he had told the man that he was studying law and had also learned martial arts, as a “subtle threat” to make the man back off.

“So I guess when you ask me why I felt helpless, even after all of this happened, I still end up in that position where even my words were weightless,” he said.

Lee finally ejaculated on her face, with the cum landing on her chin, ear, and the right side of her neck. He then got off the woman and wiped her face twice with a wet and dry handkerchief while the woman lay in shock.

Said the woman: “I told myself that I had to get out of there, that was the last straw, so I got up (and packed my things)”.

She took a file that belonged to the man and recited his name, address, school and grade, and told him that she would hear from his lawyers.

She walked out of the room with the man on her heels. While walking up the escalator to the first floor, he ran into the school security guard, who advised him to call the police.

At this point, Lee pleaded with the woman not to call the police, but to no avail. He even offered to let her hit him to “get even”. Lee allegedly called his father.

The woman testified that her mental health deteriorated after the incident, and she reflexively rejected her boyfriend’s physical advances by pushing him away, while projecting the incident onto their relationship.

[ad_2]