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In 1993, when the economic bubble collapsed, her parents ordered a 26-year-old woman who worked as a beautician in Tokyo to return home. Since then, she has been following her closely tied parents and caring for her body and soul. The father suffers from serious diseases such as cancer and heart attack, but the mother does not take care of them at all. The mother suddenly confessed that she was not my daughter when her daughter (wife) was eight months pregnant. What happened to the family on the brink of collapse? (Part 1/2 times in total).
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In this series, we will present examples of “double care.” “Dual care” refers to a condition in which parenting and long-term care occur at the same time. Parents are generally responsible for raising children and their family members are responsible for long-term care, but it is not uncommon for both burdens to be concentrated on one person. The life of that person is physically and mentally hard. And that can happen to anyone. I would like to know how to prepare for dual care and tips to overcome it through interview cases.
Her parents order a woman who was a beautician in Roppongi to return home and tie her up
“You are already a good age, so please come back!”
In the fall of 1993, my mother (59 years old at the time) called me to a beauty salon in Roppongi, Tokyo, where Ayumi Hachiya (currently 54 years old) works, who was 26 years old at the time.
“I was starting to enjoy my job and didn’t want to go home, but I waived the time limit. All the friendly workplaces picked me up and fired me.”
The following year, Mr. Hachiya returned to his parents’ home and immediately began working at a local beauty salon. I came home every night around 9 o’clock, but I had to walk up to my parents and say hi, and when I was late due to overtime, I called from the manager instead of Mr. Hachiya himself.
The parents were so close that they tried to make their daughter like them. In particular, the 66-year-old father at the time was like Mr. Hachiya waiting in the living room, even if he came home in the morning from a New Years Eve party.
In 1995, Mr. Hachiya opened his own store at the age of 29. His mother was also a beautician, but she renovated her house and her shop, which was closed, and changed the name of the shop.
When the store opens, parents may want to get involved in the store, come and talk to customers, serve light meals to customers, and start polishing their bikes. I can’t stop even if I convince him to stop because it’s annoying.
One day, when Mr. Hachiya warned her that her mother had shampoo for her assistant, she slapped him twice. Still, I had to put up with it.
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