A cool question that silences the “messy person” poking out of the corner of a heavy box in a meeting. Anyone can get confused



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How should we deal with the “problem people” that exist in a certain number in the organization? Yoshito Naito, a psychologist, said: “For example, in a meeting, there are people who get attached to small things that are different from the essence of the discussion and ask questions by pushing the corner of the heavy box. To avoid such people well , Mr Thatcher, former British Prime Minister The practical example of is useful “.

* This article is a republished version of Yoshito Naito (Kizuna Publishing) “Instruction Manual for Problematic People 58 Tips to Facilitate Human Relationships”.

A troubled Japanese wage earner looks away while sitting in the gym

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Torisetsu from Annoying People Part 1: People Who Ask Questions in Quick Succession

・ Ask questions that cannot be answered
・ The other person understands and asks a question.
・ Impression that many people speak fast

I really don’t like watching parliamentary broadcasts on television.

In particular, the appearance of opposition politicians asking questions to peck at the corners of heavy boxes is not as graceful as a compliment.

I understand that it is the job of the opposition party to complain and try to destroy the image of the ruling party, but I feel like I am repeating the “question that I only ask to defeat the other party.”

I don’t want to see such a scene so much, so I quietly turn off the television.

“How specifically do you view the ‘need to consider’?”
“What do you mean by” creating a system for everyone to participate “?

These questions seem like questions just to beat the other person.

No matter what the other person answers, I have no intention of accepting it, so it is a waste to answer.

What is sterile without calling this sterile?

In other words, they just ask you a useless question. What is sterile without calling this sterile? The question is so persistent that the person answering the question

“Those kinds of little things …”

If so,

“What are the details? It’s natural that you can’t understand unless you clarify all the questions!”

I am really tired because I can eat more.

So what should we do when faced with such a situation?

Dr Peter Bull of the University of York, UK, has studied an interview with former Prime Minister Thatcher, famous for dodging questions, and has revealed some effective methods.

Let me introduce you.



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