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When a 39-year-old woman was one and a half years old, her father ran away with another woman. After that, he was raised by his paternal grandparents around his 60th birthday at that time. My grandmother, who took care of my environment and my job, is now 92 years old and has symptoms of dementia. Women are sometimes accused of being “bastards, miserable and poor gods”, but what is the reason they are prepared for full-time care? (Part 1/2 times in total).
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In this series, we will present examples of “single long-term care.” “Single long-term care” refers to cases where a single person, a person who has been divorced or divorced from their spouse, or a person who has siblings is in charge of long-term care alone. The situation surrounding the party is tough. I have often heard people say, “I’m about to cross the line.” Why is such a crisis situation created? I would like to make a warning to society through my case studies.
A 39-year-old woman raised by her grandparents who abandoned me for a year and a half and ran away from her father.
Sakura Amemiya (pseudonym), who lives in Kansai, is currently 39 years old and single. Life was indescribably winding.
The first turning point was around 1 year and 5 months when I finally got up or not. Suddenly my father ran away with a woman. Of course, Mr. Amemiya doesn’t remember that, but someone told me later.
The mother’s parents, who were furious at the father’s selfish behavior, took the mother home. At that time, the mother insisted, “Take my daughter!”, But the paternal grandparents did not hand over Mr. Amemiya. For my paternal grandparents, my son’s infidelity was the cause, but he was an important grandson.
After all, the father remarried the woman. Amemiya was raised by his 61-year-old grandfather and 57-year-old grandmother at the time.
My grandfather was an aluminum foil stamper and my grandmother helped my grandfather to work. My grandfather suffered from pulmonary tuberculosis in his thirties and was sentenced to “three months” of life expectancy. However, after that, my grandmother worked as hard as my grandfather, she gave everything I heard that was good for my grandfather and I kept taking care of him while I slept, I was able to live to 67 years. My grandmother doubled my grandfather’s life.
“For me, my parents are other people. I have no desire or resentment for living with them.”
To date, Amemiya has never met her real mother. 38 years have passed since I separated. I do not know if my maternal grandparents did not allow me to meet me or if my mother decided not to meet me. On the other hand, his father and his partner occasionally remarried until Mr. Amemiya was 10 years old, but gradually grew apart.
“To me, my parents feel like someone else. I thought, ‘What if my dad doesn’t run away?’ Or ‘What if I lived with my real mother?’, But for me, my parents can’t imagine living with him, and I don’t have the feeling of “I want to live with” or “I have a grudge.”
My grandparents had a daughter above Amemiya’s father, they married a farmer and lived in the neighborhood. My father’s older sister and Amemiya’s aunt helped me financially until Amemiya grew up.
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