“The end? Condemning the woman to suffer forever”



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«It is yet another story of a broken family that ends in a murder-suicide in a context of separation and depression. The brutality of the gesture towards a minor is striking, who must be protected by a father who, on the other hand, becomes an executioner ». It is the comment of family psychotherapist Maddalena Cialdella on the extreme gesture of Turin Claudio Baima Poma who took his own life after shooting his 11-year-old son Andrea.
How do you get to a filicide?

«The man seems not to have accepted the separation from his partner. This choice, through which he passed, unleashed a process of vindication against the other, with the exploitation of the child in common to the extreme act of taking his life, to separate him from his mother. It is worse than femicide, because in this way the woman is condemned to suffer forever.
The father seems not to have felt guilty

“We are talking about a lucid madness, in which the executioner does not consider the son as a separate entity, but rather as a separate entity, so much so that he kills himself and kills himself. In this way the feeling of guilt disappears ».
Why the announcement of the gesture on Facebook?

«Leave a clear message to the world. As if to say: I am the armed wing, the perpetrator, but the fault of this homicide suicide is my ex-partner.
What to do to avoid the worst?

“We need an integrated therapy based on drugs and psychotherapy, necessary to address the causes of many problems.”


Last Updated: Tuesday, September 22, 2020, 08:21 AM

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