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Jakarta – Deddy Corbuzier and Kalina Oktarani have been divorced for a long time, mother. However, their relationship so far has remained harmonious. They were even irrigated by the neighbors because they were still at home.
Apparently, one of the reasons Deddy and Kalina continued to have good relationships was because of the presence of their only son, Azka Corbuzier. The couple did not want the house to be broken so Azka would be ruined.
“A broken home is not a broken home. What is wrong is that when people separate, their children get carried away, their children are damaged by the separation.“Stressed Deddy Corbuzier, quoted from Luna Maya YouTube channel, Friday (5/1/2020).
Deddy even revealed, the first time he divorced, his ex-wife still always comes home. This is because he and his ex want to continue to make Azka feel the presence of her parents.
“Old song that I can every day at home. So my son, until now, doesn’t know about the divorce, he doesn’t feel lost. If you ask me how about the divorce, I don’t know, I still see my father, almost every day,“Deddy explained.
In fact, Deddy and Kalina even got a neighbor, mother. However, he did not bother too much because for him the most important thing was the interests of his son.
“So when I got divorced, until the neighbors were still gossiping, she got divorced but lived in the same house. If I get divorced, it means that I don’t have a husband and wife relationship, but there are children, it should be us two who take care of that.“He said.
 Kalina and Deddy Corbuzier Dinyinyiri Neighbors because they are still at home / Photo: Instagram @ mastercorbuzier |
According to Deddy, a child from a family. broken house it will be damaged when you are prohibited from reuniting with your parents. So both Deddy and Kalina agreed to stay on good terms to care for Azka.
“The boy broke when he brought him here today, he moved there tomorrow, retired again, he met his father no, he met his mother no,“He said.
The relationship between Deddy Corbuzier and Kalina is really harmonious, because divorce is not a reason to end friendship with a former partner. Psychologist Seth Meyers, Psy.D., said making friends with a former partner after the divorce can heal past injuries. Especially so that we can live our lives better now.
“The relationship is very broad. Not because of the divorce, we cannot continue living and considering the former as a stranger,” Meyers said. Psychology today.
Communication between ex-husband and wife is also important to maintain. Said sociologist and instructor at UC Barkeler’s Good Science Science Center, Christine Carter, Ph.D, both parents must talk to each other, they must also learn to solve shared problems related to children.
“When the kids are with your ex-husband or wife, don’t spoil their happy events. Instead, find ways to see them without interrupting them,” said Christine.
(Yun / muf)
