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– Glenn Fredly’s death on Wednesday (04/08/2020) made those closest to him feel very lost. One of them was Anastika Ardiana, a close friend who was still communicating in Glenn’s last days.
“3 days ago, you’re just kidding “Gewa at home first with Mama Ika,“Ika wrote on her Instagram account, quoted on Friday (10/4/2020).
Not only that, Bun. Two days before he died, Glenn asked Ika to accompany his wife, Mutia Ayu. Ika didn’t expect that after that the friend would be gone forever.
Ika also remembers the message and the tasks assigned by Glenn. The man whose full name is Glenn Fredly Deviano Latuihamallo asked him to make a book.
“2 days ago, you told me to come and befriend you … It turns out you want to go, Ndut? .. I ask you to make a book, God willing, I realize,“Ika said.
Ika then promised to be a good friend to Mutia and Gewa. At least Ika was relieved, Glenn was now happy.
“Now you are cured, happy, your work is over, we are all left with the task … I promise it will be Mama Ika who exclaims to Gewa … Rest in love,“he wrote.
Glenn Fredly’s Friends / Photos: Instagram
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Not only that, because Ika also felt that Gewa would later grow up to inherit Glenn’s nature. Then he supposed that he would argue more often with his late friend’s son.
“But I think Gewa will be my friend to fight with you. From home, sometimes laughing, sometimes my face goes crazy with me. And if I put you in front of him, he cries lsg crazy … hahahaha,“Ika closed.
Glenn Fredly died at the age of 44 at Setia Mitra Fatmawati Hospital, Jakarta. He died after being treated for meningitis.
The loss of a close friend is not easy to deal with, Bun. According to mental health counselor Raychelle Cassada Lohmann Ph.D., when a good friend dies, there are no words that can fill the void in the life of a friend who was left behind.
“Like most people, our minds can be like searching for answers to questions that cannot be answered, why?” Lohmann said. Psychology today.
Unfortunately there is no answer to that question. In life, good things happen to good people, especially when someone dies.
“Part of the healing process is learning to find ways to deal with and accept unanswered questions,” said Lohmann.
Mother, also see the story of Aldila Bekti who remembers her deceased son, in the following video:
[Gambas:Video Haibunda]