According to Katalin Novák, I can be a strong and successful woman if I don’t think I should earn at least as much as a man



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If there are still women in the country who have not grown tired of László Kövér’s guidelines on the place and role of women in this world, Katalin Novák’s thoughts can now help them. The Minister of Families tells us in a Facebook video how a woman can be successful, strong and what it takes for a woman to fulfill herself.

When I was young, I clicked on the video with great interest, from which I learned that

for me as a woman, I must not believe that I must constantly compete with men and compare myself with them to have “at least one position, at least one salary” like them.

Fortunately, I was able to assure myself that I did not have to choose between having a child and “a serious professional job, a position of responsibility”, it seems enough to rely on it to earn less in my position of responsibility than my male colleagues. (Or can I search equally with them? Only my future husband needs to earn more than I do? Unfortunately, this was not clear from the video.)

We don’t have to choose between “motherhood” and “position”!Photo: Axiom Facebook

According to Novák, I don’t have to believe that I cannot decide freely and cannot live my fullness as a mother of many children, “only” living for my family.

The ministerial guidelines do not address what will happen to those whose free choice and fulfillment do not lie in family motherhood.

Novák emphasizes that the decision (which is to assume a family for the realization) is in our hands, but recognizes that it is not easy to make these decisions. It is difficult to decide to connect our lives with someone and it is difficult to decide whether to have a child. I don’t know if this is easier for a man and therefore should not be encouraged in a motivational video. They may be assigned so many positions of responsibility at work that they are already used to these many responsibilities.

At least I don’t have to look for an answer to the question of what will happen to those who, as a woman, would connect their lives and have a child not with a man, but with another woman, because the pumpkin is simple: don’t do it.

I also learned from Katalin Novák that I don’t have to worry: although it is not easy to take care of the family and work at the same time, “women have so much power that we can bear the weight of others.”

Let’s dare to make bold decisions! Let’s not give up our privileges in a misunderstood fight for emancipation

– says the Minister.

She urges us to “experience beauty and the possibility of harmony between women and men,” which according to the animation in the video means something that will make me happy when my husband can remove the bottle from the top shelf, which I won’t get. he.

The caring man helps the strong woman remove the bottle from the top shelf.Photo: Axiom Facebook

As a farewell, Novak lists how much I can rejoice as a woman: for example, that I can give my life, that I have been given the “beauty of love and care for others” (which is a notoriously exclusive female privilege, correct), and that I can be glad to take responsibility.

And I thank Katalin Novák for the guidance and am glad that, in my opinion, it is not just a “free choice” for a woman to carry the family with the burden of others.

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